21/03/2022
It’s tough to find the right words after a stressful period of time or after an argument, but repair attempts are key to getting your relationship back on track.
It’s tough to find the right words after a stressful period of time or after an argument, but repair attempts are key to getting your relationship back on track.
A repair attempt is any statement or action—verbal, physical, or otherwise—meant to diffuse negativity and manage conflict.
Dr. John Gottman refers to repair attempts as “the secret weapon” of emotionally intelligent couples. Research shows that the success or failure of a couple’s repair attempts is one of the primary factors in whether a relationship is likely to flourish or flounder.
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Please note: This post is not meant to address situations of abuse. Social media is not a substitute for therapy and individualized support.