14/08/2025
Babies and children are master communicators! 👶🗣️ They are born from us and know exactly how we are feeling ❤️ even when sometimes we don’t know ourselves . This is why being honest is so important . Our babies get to see the continuity between what we say 💬, and our actions, behaviour and our feelings 💓 — and what this looks like.
We’ll notice it firstly when our babies are going to sleep 🌙💤. If we are at all anxious 😰 or stressed 😩, they won’t drop off to sleep easily or they’ll take longer , and it’s a more concerted effort on our behalf to get them to fall asleep. (Argghhh! 😫)
Connecting with our child whilst they play is a way to understand our children, it makes them feel seen and heard and realise that we do have a sense of understanding them and are interested in how they are feeling in the moment. It makes them feel worthy of our love 💖, important in our eyes 🌟, they feel safe and secure 🛡️.
Quality of time versus quantity of time is what’s important 💡. The relationship is everything for our children and along with that comes honesty 🤍. Is this hard to do? 😅 Are we even honest with ourselves? 🤷♀️
We need to tell our children exactly what’s going on during the day 📅. Age appropriately of course! Because they can read our emotions , they know when we’re stressed or anxious , and if we don’t tell them why, they’ll make up their own stories about why. Guaranteed it will be something they feel they’ve done and is negative 🚫!
How many times have we told ourselves a story 🤔, only to then get it clarified , and it have nothing to do with us at all? Our children are exactly the same 👧👦. If they’re not told the real reason, they’ll make one up and believe it!
Open, honest and clear communication every single time! 📢💯 It takes practice 🔄, but we need to do it for our relationship with our children ❤️.