28/05/2021
Ah, Melbourne. Here we go again, looking down the barrel of another COVID lockdown. As an introvert, I have to admit that I sometimes (often) daydream about social plans being cancelled last minute. So, it’s not the 7-day lockdown that has me feeling flat, it’s the uncertainty of what comes ‘next’. After 7 days, can my best friend reschedule her baby shower? Can my family take our planned weekend away to celebrate my niece’s 2nd birthday? Can I make plans for the future? Will our lives ever be back to normal? What is normal? Woah, Nelly! No wonder I’m suddenly feeling stressed. You are too? Here’s a few things I’m doing to keep myself on track.
• Stop the sn*******ng thoughts. Yes, easier said than done but repeat after me “I am not my thoughts”. When you notice your thoughts starting to spiral and snowball, consciously stop yourself. What can you hear/see/feel/touch in this present moment? Focus on that and treat it as a circuit-breaker.
• Don’t put your life on hold. Get up, get dressed, eat properly, and keep taking your supplements. Maybe you can’t go out, but you can still take care of yourself.
• Get some fresh air. Yeah, it’s cold, maybe it’s even raining but a bit of water won’t hurt you (unless you’re the Wicked Witch of the West). If you’re working from home, or home schooling, taking regular mini-breaks will be vital to your sanity. Even better, take advantage of the time allocated to exercise and get your body moving.
• Be kind to yourself. Acknowledge and accept that this is tough, we’re all feeling fatigued and stressed. Have faith that things will calm down and we will get back to ‘normal’, even if it does look a bit different now.
Whilst we might be ‘all in this together’, it is important to recognise we’re all facing different circumstances and dealing with different complexities. It’s OK to feel stressed and upset, it’s even OK to feel relieved at being holed up at home for a little while. This is unchartered territory but with the help of our support networks and a little bit of self-care, it’ll be over before we know it.
Xx