The Ace of Hearts Unlock Your Potential

The Ace of Hearts Unlock Your Potential for good.

Transformative Coach | Master NLP, Hypnotherapy and Time Line Therapy Practitioner | Trauma-Informed | Life Coach | Helping you break patterns, heal deeply & rewrite your story..

I’m sitting here holding the Ace of Hearts while the rest of the deck drops around me, and it hit me…When life gets nois...
29/01/2026

I’m sitting here holding the Ace of Hearts while the rest of the deck drops around me, and it hit me…

When life gets noisy or heavy, the work isn’t trying to control everything.
It’s deciding what actually matters and letting the rest go.

The last few weeks reminded me of that.
My default is still to push through, handle it myself, not say much.
But things shifted when I slowed down, used the tools I trust, let some of it release… and accepted support instead of fighting it.

Focus isn’t about effort.
It’s about intention.

You don’t need to keep every card in play.
You just need to hold the right one.

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I just received an email from a client tonight…“𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓃𝓀 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒶𝑔𝒶𝒾𝓃 𝒻𝑜𝓇 𝒽𝑒𝓁𝓅𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓂𝑒 𝒶𝓁𝑜𝓃𝑔 𝓂𝓎 𝒿𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓃𝑒𝓎, 𝐼’𝓂 𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓎 𝓂𝓊𝒸𝒽 𝒶 𝒹𝒾𝒻𝒻𝑒𝓇𝑒...
28/01/2026

I just received an email from a client tonight…

“𝒯𝒽𝒶𝓃𝓀 𝓎𝑜𝓊 𝒶𝑔𝒶𝒾𝓃 𝒻𝑜𝓇 𝒽𝑒𝓁𝓅𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝓂𝑒 𝒶𝓁𝑜𝓃𝑔 𝓂𝓎 𝒿𝑜𝓊𝓇𝓃𝑒𝓎, 𝐼’𝓂 𝓋𝑒𝓇𝓎 𝓂𝓊𝒸𝒽 𝒶 𝒹𝒾𝒻𝒻𝑒𝓇𝑒𝓃𝓉 𝒶𝓃𝒹 𝒾𝓂𝓅𝓇𝑜𝓋𝑒𝒹 𝓂𝑒 𝒾𝓃 𝒿𝓊𝓈𝓉 𝑜𝓋𝑒𝓇 𝟣𝟤 𝓂𝑜𝓃𝓉𝒽𝓈. 𝐼’𝓂 𝓈𝓉𝒶𝓇𝓉𝒾𝓃𝑔 𝒶𝓁𝓇𝑒𝒶𝒹𝓎 𝓉𝑜 𝓉𝒶𝓀𝑒 𝒶𝒸𝓉𝒾𝑜𝓃 𝑜𝓃 𝓉𝒽𝑒 𝒶𝒷𝑜𝓋𝑒.”

This client attended my “Change Within, Change Everything” workshop, completed my “Shift, Break, Become” sessions, and now we simply catch up whenever they feel the need to realign and recharge.

Here’s why they’ve had such great results:
Sessions matter but so does what happens between them.

That’s why sometimes I give clients small, practical actions to work on, so growth keeps happening in real life, not just in the room.

If you’ve been treading water and looking for change, it’s time you reach out.

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You’re trying to hold it all together but the thing you really need; rest, support, help... has always felt just out of ...
27/01/2026

You’re trying to hold it all together but the thing you really need; rest, support, help... has always felt just out of reach.

And that’s kind of what struggling feels like sometimes.
You’re doing everything you can, stretching in every direction, trying to keep it together… but the thing that would actually make a difference feels impossible to get.

Here’s what I’ve learned working with real people every day: you don’t have to reach alone. It’s okay to ask for help, to let someone catch you (still working on that one myself), and to admit that trying to do it all on your own isn’t working.

Being human doesn’t mean being perfect.
It means showing up, seeking support when you need it, and trusting that with the right guidance, real change is possible... the kind that actually sticks and makes life feel lighter.

If you’re out there stretching for your “bed” today… If you’ve tried before and gotten nowhere… Just know there are other options and you don’t have to do it alone.

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Jeans. Shirt. Aussie flag on the back. Beer in hand. Foot on a croc.Flexing while a kangaroo tries to take me on. Every ...
25/01/2026

Jeans. Shirt. Aussie flag on the back. Beer in hand. Foot on a croc.
Flexing while a kangaroo tries to take me on.

Every Aussie stereotype rolled into one. Funny, right?
But here’s the part we don’t joke about enough.

For a lot of blokes, strength still looks like pushing through.
Sorting it out alone.
Stuffing things down and hoping they disappear.

And asking for help?
Still feels taboo... It still feels like weakness.

Truth is, real Aussie men don’t just wrestle crocs.
We wrestle stress... Fear... Regret... The quiet stuff no one sees.
(That fight however, doesn’t get won by pretending everything’s fine).

Support isn’t invasive.
You don’t have to relive your past to move forward.

Owning your stuff.
Showing up when it’s hard.
Letting someone support you.
That’s real courage.

Wrestle the croc for the photo.
Do the inner work in life.
Because that’s the fight that actually changes things.

I've been where you are.. reach out if you want to know more about how I can help.

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You’re tired.Not just “need coffee” tired.Heavy‑in‑your‑bones tired.You’ve slept... You’ve rested.But nothing feels rest...
23/01/2026

You’re tired.
Not just “need coffee” tired.
Heavy‑in‑your‑bones tired.

You’ve slept... You’ve rested.
But nothing feels restored.

Growing up, you adapted fast.
Handled too much.
Carried more than your share.
Always alert. Always ready.

Over time, the nervous system stopped switching off.
It stayed in “on.”
So your body learned burnout as normal.
Forward motion over rest.
Survival over peace.

This isn’t laziness... It isn’t weakness.
It’s a nervous system wired for constant readiness.

The shift comes when the body learns it’s safe to relax again.
When you stop surviving and start restoring.
When you release the tension that’s not actually needed anymore.

If this resonates… maybe it’s time to:
shift out of autopilot,
break the burnout pattern,
and become someone who can truly rest.

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Always measuring up.Always checking.Always shrinking to fit.Growing up compared. Criticised. Judged.The nervous system l...
22/01/2026

Always measuring up.
Always checking.
Always shrinking to fit.

Growing up compared. Criticised. Judged.
The nervous system learned: never enough.

It shows up as tight chest.
Hesitation before speaking.
Shrinking in groups.
Self-doubt you can’t shake.

Comparison isn’t just a thought.
It’s a threat the body carries.

The shift comes when the nervous system stops policing itself.
When the inner critic is released.
When certainty is embodied, not argued.

If this feels familiar, it might be time to
shift out of self-surveillance,
break the inner critic,
and become grounded in your own certainty.

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Lately I’ve noticed how tired people are…Not the obvious kind.The quiet kind you carry while still showing up.Smiling. F...
22/01/2026

Lately I’ve noticed how tired people are…
Not the obvious kind.
The quiet kind you carry while still showing up.

Smiling. Functioning. Doing what needs to be done.
While inside, something feels stretched thin.

There’s this pressure to be “okay”
to stay positive, to not make it awkward for anyone else.

But some days, being okay looks like getting through the day without falling apart. And that actually counts.

If today feels heavier than it should, you’re not failing.
You’re responding to life as it is right now.

Take a breath... Lower the bar.
You don’t need to be strong all the time to be worthy.

If this hits, it's because you’re not alone. 🤍

xx

Always first to give.Always waiting for the call that never comes.Always adjusting to make someone else feel wanted.Grow...
21/01/2026

Always first to give.
Always waiting for the call that never comes.
Always adjusting to make someone else feel wanted.

Growing up, love felt conditional.
Someone else’s needs came first.
Consistency was rare. Presence even rarer.

Over time, the body remembers.
Over-giving.
Fear of abandonment.
Staying too long.
Settling for less than you deserve.

This isn’t weakness.
It’s the nervous system learning: love has to be earned.

The shift comes when the body learns differently.
When the pattern is released.
When love isn’t something you chase... it’s something you feel safely inside.

If this feels familiar, it might be time to
shift the belief,
break the emotional loop,
and become secure without chasing.

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Reading the room.Before saying a word.Feeling the shift.Fixing the mood.Keeping things calm.Growing up, someone had to.T...
20/01/2026

Reading the room.
Before saying a word.

Feeling the shift.
Fixing the mood.
Keeping things calm.

Growing up, someone had to.

That role sticks.
Scanning rooms.
Carrying responsibility that isn’t yours.
Guilt when resting.
Anxiety when others are uncomfortable.

This isn’t calm.
It’s a nervous system on duty.

Peacekeeping isn’t peace.
It’s control learned early... just to feel safe.

The work is learning you don’t have to manage everyone anymore.
Your body can stand down.

If this feels familiar:
shift out of responsibility,
break the pattern,
become grounded in yourself.

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Always being the strong one looks good from the outside.Calm. Capable. Holding it together.But inside?Jaw clenched.Chest...
19/01/2026

Always being the strong one looks good from the outside.
Calm. Capable. Holding it together.

But inside?
Jaw clenched.
Chest tight.
Body never really resting.

When no one checked in, strength became survival.
When there was no space to fall apart, the nervous system learned:
Stay alert. Stay capable. Don’t need anything.

That doesn’t disappear with time.
It shows up as exhaustion that sleep doesn’t fix.
Struggling to ask for help.
Feeling uncomfortable when things finally slow down.

This isn’t a personality trait.
It’s a pattern the body learned early.

And the shift doesn’t come from “being softer” or “letting go.”
It comes from teaching the nervous system that it’s finally safe to stop holding everything together.

If this feels familiar, it might be time to
Shift out of survival,
Break the pattern of always carrying it alone,
and become someone who can rest without guilt.

Reach out when you’re ready.

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Walking into a room, and suddenly freezing.A door slams somewhere nearby and the shoulders tighten without thinking. A r...
18/01/2026

Walking into a room, and suddenly freezing.

A door slams somewhere nearby and the shoulders tighten without thinking. A raised voice makes the stomach flip.
Always on edge, even when nothing is happening.

Growing up, the home was loud.
Arguments. Tension. Shouting that never really ended.
Leaving didn’t leave it behind.

Trauma from parental conflict doesn’t just live in memory.
It lives in the nervous system.
In startle reactions, in the tension carried in the shoulders, in the automatic bracing for impact; even decades later.

The difference comes when the work is done to release those old patterns.
To stop reacting before the brain even knows what’s happening.
To finally feel grounded. Present. Safe.

If you feel this way… maybe it’s time to reach out and clear it.

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There’s this weight I've be carrying. A worry that won’t switch off. Nights spent replaying “what ifs” and mornings wond...
15/01/2026

There’s this weight I've be carrying. A worry that won’t switch off. Nights spent replaying “what ifs” and mornings wondering how to stay grounded.

It’s strange... feeling completely out of control over something so close, someone I love deeply. All you can do is breathe, keep showing up, and hope that love and presence are enough to carry you through... to give them strength.

Some days it feels heavy. Other days, it’s just a quiet, steady determination to be there, even when the fear is loud.

For anyone else feeling this kind of worry... know that you’re not alone.
Feeling this deeply isn’t weakness. It’s proof that you care.

xx

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