09/01/2025
Here are my 2025 postpartum ins & outs....
Honestly I could have made a long list of these but decided to keep it short and sweet so lets go through them.
Ins
5:5:5- mums should be doing this at a minimum if she can do it for longer that is amazing. Basically the rule is mum stays in for 5 day, no getting up to get food, drinks, entertain people ect its all snuggles in bed being waited on. 5 days on the bed, this is where mums start to get up a little bit but still very much on the bed allowing her body to rest and heal while bonding with her new baby. Finally is 5 days around the bed so she starts coming into the common rooms of the house but still allowing her body that time to rest and recover while being close to baby.
No visits unless mum wants them there, sorry dads but you don't even get a say in the visitors. Women have so many hormones in their bodies, they have just birthed a human and are now responsible for this baby all while trying to heal, bond with baby and find their new normal. If mum says no to someone visiting whether that is family or friends that is the end of conversation.
Nourishing meals & drinks, there is alot of things going on for women postpartum nourishment is so important. We want warm, wholesome foods and drinks to aid in that recovery as well as help with milk supply.
Outs
Expecting mum to "bounce back" eww no we are past that. Mum has just gone through one of the biggest transformations of her life, we are not adding any extra pressure for mum to look or feel a certain way for society.
Unsolicited advice, I promise if a mum wants you advice she will ask you. If you are not directly asked by her just keep it to yourself.
Self comparison needs to stop. Most women don't feel or look how they expected and that's ok. We all experience our own postpartum journey and we do not need to compare it to someone online (lets be honest we only see photos or 10 seconds of someone life online, that simply isn't the truth)
These are my top 3 ins & outs forn2025!
What are you top ins & outs?