14/05/2026
Have you ever felt like you must be the only person with a brain like this?
That low-grade sense of being behind - on life, on yourself, on standards you can't quite name but feel everywhere.
The way your mind carefully files the hard stuff and lets the good stuff go almost immediately.
Here's the thing - that's not a character flaw or a personal failing.
It's neurological, psychological and biological, and once you understand what's actually happening underneath it all, things start to make a little more sense.
Shani has written about this over on the blog, why your brain works the way it does, what your happy brain chemicals actually need from you and why the antidote isn't relentless positivity but making space for the full picture.
Your brain is more changeable than you think.
http://sjpwellbeing.com/articles/happy-chemicals-and-why-they-matter