11/01/2025
To live with intention comes from a deep connection to the body and self. When we are in a chronic state of dysregulation, our ability to make conscious, grounded decisions is compromised. Instead, our decisions are often shaped by internal cognitive dialogues that are distorted and reactive. This is what psychologists refer to as a top-down approach: the brain’s higher functions, like thought and reasoning, drive our actions. While this can be useful in task-focused environments, it doesn’t always serve us when it comes to living in the present moment.
The issue with relying too heavily on this top-down approach is that our mind, in its protective role, draws on past experiences often misinterpreting them and constructs a version of reality designed to keep us safe. While this mode can be optimal when planning for future events or challenges, it can be detrimental in everyday life. The mind’s narrative, based on past fears or protective instincts, distorts how we experience the world in the present, preventing us from fully engaging with life as it is.
In contrast, everyday life is primarily governed by the limbic brain, the part of our brain that is responsible for emotional processing. When we are in a state of chronic stress or overwhelm, the limbic system is overactive, and this emotional overdrive can cause havoc on the nervous system. It can lead to feelings of anxiety, irritability, or a sense of chaos in our bodies. In these moments, the top-down, cognitive approach, driven by our mind’s protective responses, becomes a barrier to experiencing the calm, clarity, and presence we need to navigate life.
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