26/04/2026
It’s not bad luck. It’s a nervous system pattern.
If you grew up in an environment where love was inconsistent, unpredictable, or conditional ,your nervous system learned to associate love with uncertainty. With working for it. With never quite having enough.
So when you meet someone emotionally available, it can feel... boring. Too easy. Suspicious.
And when you meet someone unavailable ,it feels like home.
This is not a flaw. It’s a pattern. And patterns can change.
You deserve love that feels safe, not love that keeps you guessing. 🤍
Save this for someone who needs to hear it.