
08/10/2025
đ CROSS WAVES & CROSSROADS đ
If youâve ever seen a checkerboard pattern on the oceanâs surfaceâlike the seaâs decided to play chess with itselfâyouâve witnessed square waves. They look magical, but theyâre also dangerous. These waves form when two different weather systems create opposing wave patterns that collide at angles. What results is turbulence, unpredictability, and a whole lot of trouble for any boat (or swimmer) caught in the crossfire.
Itâs a stunning metaphor for those moments in life when everything comes at you from all directions.
Maybe itâs work pulling one way and parenting pulling another. Maybe it's your sense of self clashing with the version of you youâve had to become. Or love vs friendship. Grief vs joy. Past vs present. Whatever it is, youâre suddenly in stormy watersâbeing rocked by forces that donât blend, but bash. You feel like a tiny boat in a chaotic sea. đśđŞď¸
In these times, we might:
đĽ Smash into the rocks and wash up somewhere we donât recognise, kept company by our version of Wilson the volleyball.
đ Be lucky enough to be rescued by a mental health chopper disguised as a friend, therapist, or unexpected insight.
â Make it to shore, patch ourselves up, and wait for clearer weather.
đ Or we might capsize completelyâmomentarily lost beneath the swell.
Here's the truth: we can't always avoid rough seas. But we can learn to read the weather.
That means checking in not just with whatâs going on around usâbut also whatâs happening within. Our thoughts. Our nervous systems. Our energy levels. Our needs. And then adjusting our sails, changing course, or dropping anchor if need be.
This is what mental health work is often about: đ§ learning to sailâflexibly, adaptively, wisely. Not so we avoid storms forever, but so we donât lose ourselves when they hit.
Yes, itâs tempting to never set sail againâto stay on solid land and play it safe. But in doing so, our world can shrink⌠and we can shrink with it. There is beauty, adventure, and awe waiting out thereâif we learn how to dance the tide with the right safety gear on. đ§Ą
And if youâre in Brisbane and want to explore these waters in a walk and talk session, details are in the bio.