13/08/2025
Safety is what allows your heart to soften, your body to exhale, your truth to rise.
It’s the foundation of every real healing moment. Not the modality. Not the method. Not the perfectly timed advice. Just safety.
And yet, so often, this piece is missed. Coaches rush the process. Therapists focus more on models than on connection. Healing becomes another thing to achieve. To fix. To force.
And I say this with love, but also concern, because I’ve lived through it. I’ve sat in rooms where I didn’t feel seen. Where my pain was analysed instead of held. Where I left feeling more broken than when I arrived.
Sometimes, it’s because the person simply doesn’t have the heart for this work. And other times, it’s something more troubling, when harm is done under the guise of help. When people step into these roles without the training, the ethics, or the care that this work requires.
This is why safety matters to me so deeply. Why I return to it over and over again. Because when someone shares their story, their grief, their shame... they are entrusting you with the most fragile parts of their being. And that is sacred. That is not something to rush.
Healing can’t happen in a space that doesn’t feel safe. The body won’t allow it. The heart won’t trust it. The soul will simply ignore it.
But when safety is present, everything changes. Walls soften. Breath deepens. The truth that’s been hiding begins to rise. Not because someone forced it out, but because it was finally safe enough to be seen.
This is the kind of space I believe in. The kind that honours your pace, your body, your story. Because when we feel safe, we don’t just survive, we begin to come home to ourselves. And that changes everything.
I want to invite you in to my space. My books are open to a couple of new 1:1 clients. You can book a free vibe check call to see if I'm the right practitioner for you, or you can dive straight into booking sessions 🤍