29/06/2025
Thank you Sue & Jules for sharing your story. All of us who are on "Team Jules" are privileged to be part of your lives
“As a le***an carer feeling accepted is essential. When I’m supporting my wife, my focus is entirely on her wellbeing. I don’t need to second-guess whether I’ll be judged or discriminated against because of who we are.”
Sue is a carer for her wife Julie, who is living with dementia. This Pride Month, she shares why it is important for her and her wife to be embraced, accepted and welcomed in the dementia and health care system.
“When speaking with healthcare teams, support workers, or other carers, being able to openly say my wife, without hesitating makes a huge difference,” Sue said.
“We waited so long to get here, and I am so proud to call her my wife! I know that it makes Julie feel safe and supported as well.
“I made the decision early on in her journey to keep her at home surrounded by experienced carers and allied healthcare workers. I never want either of us to feel uncomfortable or judged in our own home.”
For information and resources on dementia and LGBT+ people visit our website dementia.org.au/dementia-and-lgbti-people or contact the National Dementia Helpline anytime on 1800 100 500.
