07/01/2026
Libido is not a personality trait. It is a moving target.
It shifts with stress, sleep, hormones, mental load, health, kids, and the state of your relationship. Mismatched libido is common. Low libido is common. And it does not mean something is broken.
Desire looks different for different people. For many women it is responsive rather than spontaneous. Both are normal, and both change over time💜