18/03/2026
🚗 Born in 1932 in Durban, South Africa, Renee is a remarkable woman who broke barriers as one of the first women of colour to drive in Durban, zipping around in in her little red Alfa Romeo adorned with badges from her worldwide travels.
She was also a dedicated community leader, and was instrumental in fundraising and beginning five preschools for the community.
As a middle child in a family of nine, Renee’s early education was cut short for her safety amid the racial turmoil in South Africa at the time. Yet her passion for learning never faded, as she pursued nursing and later bookkeeping, supporting her retired father’s business.
In 1956, Renee met and married her brother’s friend Derek. Love marriages were not a thing back in 1956 but they were trailblazers, and enjoyed nearly 60 years of happiness before he passed away suddenly.
Renee was the ‘mother’ of Derek’s younger siblings and raised them with lots of love. She organised and married off seven of them! The surviving siblings and their families love and respect her to this day.
Renee had two children of her own, Barney in Cape Town and Sandhya in Sydney. She has six grandchildren and one great-grandson. She read avidly, loved to garden and could name most flowers, was an excellent cook, even for up to 200 people on an open fire in the backyard, and was also an excellent seamstress.
Derek and Renee moved to Sydney in 2010 to be with their daughter and her family. They settled into a routine and were adored by their three granddaughters. They travelled around Australia and made a few overseas trips too. She worked alongside Derek in his trouser manufacturing business, and was chairperson of the Verulam Women’s Circle where she became a strong leader and fundraiser for the community.
Renee moved into Northcourt in 2023 when she needed specialised dementia care, and found comfort and purpose in small acts of kindness and social connection. Renee turned 93 in December 2025 - a life well lived. She’ll always be that strong, educated, well-travelled and articulate, capable woman; a loving, caring mother and grandmother who is very much loved by all. 💖