Eryka - Empowered Living

13/12/2025

Wait in solitude until someone truly meets you at the level of soul 🤍🪶

13/12/2025

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12/12/2025

Learn to read the language of the soul 💜

12/12/2025

🤍🪶

25/11/2025

When a man doesn’t want to change, he’s telling you he prefers the comfort of his patterns over your love. He’s telling you his ego is more important than his evolution. He’s telling you self preservation is more important than the preservation of your relationship. No matter how much you love him. Speak about mutual growth and meeting eachother’s needs or how much you hope he’ll eventually rise to meet you and offer empathy over ego…if he’s more committed to staying the same he’ll simply find someone who allows it… someone who won’t challenge him or ask him to grow. He’ll prefer a surface connection that won’t require the emotional maturity he’s too lazy or too afraid to step into. Many man will not leave you for someone prettier or better but someone easier. They choose the path of least resistance because accountability feels like criticism and control to the weak and unwise. You can always spot the unconscious egoists by their preference to change partners rather than their unhealthy patterns. And yes, if they loved you deeply enough, they would.

ERYKA
STANTON

Willingness to mutually grow and build together is the most important thing.

15/11/2025

When it comes to relationships,
it’s important to discern the difference between someone
who is against you and someone who challenges you... otherwise your ego will make you run from the one that will help you evolve your soul and you will instead find comfort in someone who will stagnate and starve it. This is
the difference between an
ego vs evolutionary partner.

— ERYKA STANTON

05/11/2025

The delay isn’t denial 🤍

23/10/2025

Everything

14/10/2025

11/10/2025

Unless of course they are working on it 🫶🏽

08/10/2025

When a man doesn’t want to change, he’s telling you he prefers the comfort of his patterns over your love. He’s telling you his ego is more important than his evolution. He’s telling you self preservation is more important than the preservation of your relationship. No matter how much you love him. Speak about mutual growth and meeting eachother’s needs or how much you hope he’ll eventually rise to meet you and offer empathy over ego…if he’s more committed to staying the same he’ll simply find someone who allows it… someone who won’t challenge him or ask him to grow. He’ll prefer a surface connection that won’t require the emotional maturity he’s too lazy or too afraid to step into. Many man will not leave you for someone prettier or better but someone easier. They choose the path of least resistance because accountability feels like criticism and control to the weak and unwise. You can always spot the unconscious egoists by their preference to change partners rather than their unhealthy patterns. And yes, if they loved you deeply enough, they would.

ERYKA
STANTONby.eryka

Willingness to mutually grow and build together is the most important thing.