Eryka - Empowered Living

24/10/2025

❤️

23/10/2025

Everything

14/10/2025

11/10/2025

Unless of course they are working on it 🫶🏽

08/10/2025

When a man doesn’t want to change, he’s telling you he prefers the comfort of his patterns over your love. He’s telling you his ego is more important than his evolution. He’s telling you self preservation is more important than the preservation of your relationship. No matter how much you love him. Speak about mutual growth and meeting eachother’s needs or how much you hope he’ll eventually rise to meet you and offer empathy over ego…if he’s more committed to staying the same he’ll simply find someone who allows it… someone who won’t challenge him or ask him to grow. He’ll prefer a surface connection that won’t require the emotional maturity he’s too lazy or too afraid to step into. Many man will not leave you for someone prettier or better but someone easier. They choose the path of least resistance because accountability feels like criticism and control to the weak and unwise. You can always spot the unconscious egoists by their preference to change partners rather than their unhealthy patterns. And yes, if they loved you deeply enough, they would.

ERYKA
STANTONby.eryka

Willingness to mutually grow and build together is the most important thing.

19/08/2024

I hate to say this, but most women will go their entire lifetime and never experience the meaning of actual true love.

It's even slightly depressing to think that most people will never understand how powerful this picture actually is.

This gentleman is a prime example of how men should be treating their partner with everyday that passes.

We unfortunately live in a generation with men who have no idea what it takes to be a real man.

Let me give you a couple examples of a real man ......

A real man asks about your day and genuinely cares about the answer.

A real man respects your boundaries and never forces you to anything you're not ready to do.

He makes time for you, and takes that time to learn and understand who you are as a person.

A real man consistently shows you the definition of effort with every day that passes.

He will call you randomly throughout the day just to check on you and your mental health.

A real man is undeniably committed to you and looks for new ways to fall in love with you with every day that passes.

He makes protecting your heart a number one priority.

A real man never makes permanent decisions based on temporary emotions.

He never confuses you on where you stand in his life.

A real man apologizes when he is wrong and stays true to his character.

He doesn't mind hurting other people's feeling to protect yours.

A real man gives you affection without sexual expectation.

A real man refuses to entertain any women that isn't you.

He has genuine intentions with you from day one and shows you how it truly feels to be a priority rather an option.

A real man will help you heal from the trauma that nobody apologized for.

A real man values you and would never put themselves in a position to lose you.

Take my advice and wait for the man that never let's you fall asleep at night questioning your own self worth.

- Cody Bret