01/07/2024
Have you seen Inside Out 2 yet? I headed off last Friday to check out how I can use this movie as a learning opportunity for my ADHD clients, and there is still SO MUCH that these colourful characters can teach us about living with our emotions when we are neurodivergent.
Disney characters with big personalities are a great visual teaching method!
From a female perspective it hit the nail on the head. Puberty comes in as a wrecking ball and throws all of Riley's lovely easy to understand childhood emotions of Joy, Sadness, Fear and Anger into a tailspin. These emotional characters are not just confused by how sensitive Riley is to them, but they have to contend with a whole heap of new emotions that they didn’t know existed – Anxiety, Envy, Ennui and Embarrassment (I had to google Ennui and loved this descriptive emotion!).
From an ADHD perspective there is a lot to learn from watching this movie, and I do recommend that you give it a shot. Puberty is often the changing point for many females with ADHD. If you notice how sensitive Riley is to her emotions in the early scenes of the movie, try multiplying this by 100 to understand what an ADHD brain and body feels like. Puberty is a confusing time and so many of my clients describe it as a time where they lost a lot of their self belief and identity because they went from being the ‘smart one’ or the ‘organised one’ to being disorganised, struggling to understand instructions and their grades plummeting at school.
Just like Riley has to form a new belief system in the movie, we have all had to build a new belief system as teenagers about who we are, what we like, what we are good at, what we can offer in the world. For so many of the young women, and people identifying as women, in my clinic, this belief system is fragile and for some, our work in session is to rebuild their self belief, use their strengths and values to guide their next steps forward, and answer the question “Who am I as a woman with ADHD and how do I move forward in life with this diagnosis?”.
If you love a good Disney/ Pixar movie, and you would like some more insight into the workings of your emotions on your behaviour then I would give this one a go!
Image courtesy of press.disney.co.uk