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Tiziano Sguerso - The Language Of The Soul

“I am not here to be right, I am here to serve you. Whatever serves you best, take it!” Ts🖊️

Tiziano Sguerso is a spiritual researcher, facilitator, writer, visionary, entrepreneur and former professional kickboxer. Through a systemic therapy approach, the science of relationships, family & spiritual constellations. Tiziano works with people to restructure their life experiences in order to live their fullest potential.
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Tiziano approaches every area of their life such as relationships, finances, repetitive toxic patterns, physical symptoms or so called “sickness”, etc… Helping them to bring order, so harmony into their systems. Born on the day of the winter solstice, December 21st 1987 under the sign of Sagittarius; Tiziano’s path has led him through periods of great shadow even from an early age. Finding little if no connection with traditional school education, he has found his own education through powerful life experiences. Guided by an innate discipline, intuition and curiosity, he began his spiritual path in Australia, working with different guides and teachers, giving him the opportunity to discover the great light, well-being, harmony and abundance within himself. Driven by the endless search to discover the perfection and ease of this human experience, he has deeply studied human behavioural and relationship dynamics, where he now guides people, bringing to the surface the real nature and root of any circumstance present in the personal experience.

26/11/2025

🇦🇺A daughter who has ambitions towards the ring, the marriage and everything that surrounds it, it is for her father that she is expressing those ambitions. Through that gesture, she is letting go of him; however, if she has not taken him fully and still has eyes for him, what was not fulfilled, she sees that gesture slipping away and not finding men who aim to crown her as such.
Often she does it to prove her dad wrong!
So her eyes are not fixed on her partner, but on what is behind him: that unsuccessful or still-searched validation experience.

Often, her ambition to become a mother is a gesture of displeasure towards her own mother, a gesture of “see I am better than you and/or I have built up what you couldn't.” This is why she is longing for this family as much as she was longing for the ring. Still, even this family is not coming if her mother's imprint is not within her. It is the relationship with her mother that makes the new family possible.
She relates to it as she relates to her own mother, and the children are a consequence of it.
Would you imagine what a disaster it would be in the new family if she related to it in an unpleasant way, as she does with her own mother? This is the painted story of the majority of unsuccessful child lovers.

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25/11/2025

🇦🇺 If the previous partner is not left with love, if there is no space for them, they are weighing down the new relationship and often even the children of the new relationship, who might see the ex-partner's traits in their parents or step-parents.
If they are rejected and find no space in the new relationship heart, some of their traits might be transferred into the new relationship, even to the new partner, as reflections of unresolved issues in their own family of origin.
Everyone belongs, everyone is part of, and when everyone finds their rightful spot, what happens in the family, what happens in the new relationship? Everyone is calming down; there is peace, harmony, and connection. With the partner, they have more space to play and articulate expansion as they have more trust in the foundation of the relationship. But when one has not found peace within, and this is experienced within the couple, it is because within them, not everyone belongs, and not every gap has been filled with love.
You see right away when a person is still searching here and there “for the perfect person/partner” because they have not found peace in their heart. Why? That’s simple, they have not yet found who belongs there. Those who belong there have not yet returned, and so they are not free, and even those whom they are searching for are not free either!

Ts🌹

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23/11/2025

🇦🇺 If the mother has not fully taken the feminine, if she refuses it out of fear to let go of her own dad, of her own masculinity, for example, validation as a child, the daughter might feel unstable with the mother, and she might reject her femininity too.
This is when a daughter might confuse her role and sexuality. She embraces the masculine role because she cannot find femininity in her mother to let go and feel safe, as her mother has not felt safe there either.
The mother might not have felt seen by her own mother, or she might have found men who did not allow her to feel safe. Suppose she has not let go of that sadness in full. In that case, if she still blames them or looks externally for other people's fault rather than taking responsibility on her own, she might still retain some of that masculinity, for example, standing in pride as a protection mechanism.
What is her way out? To cry, to let go within a group of women who can hold her just as she wished to be held in her family of origin, be her mother and relatives, in the presence of love and emotional awareness.

And her father standing proud of her in that, her tears released while she fully let him go.

Ts🌹

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21/11/2025

🇦🇺 The attempt to save others comes from the inability to save ourselves.
When we cannot take from our mother fully, we often attempt to save her, just as we are so worried for everybody else, rather than ourselves.
In the long run, this is dangerous; a prolonged state in such a situation is not only detrimental to us as individuals, but also to others, as our inability to face guilt and take responsibility for what has been given to us by our mother is ultimately passed on to them. The extra care is often loaded with guilt, and we unconsciously/consciously provide it out of guilt.
What we give to others is often an innocent love, a childish love, a love absent from adulthood.
Us first. Choose yourself first to choose others.
When we can take everything for ourselves first, we give some of what was brought to others. And the more we implement this process and see it working, the more we reach a point when we can give even a little more.
This is how we create relationships and return, giving a little more of what was taken, but from a full cup.
If we give from an empty cup, if we have not taken fully what was presented, more is taken away from us, and we become scarce, Ill, and arid in need of love.
This is why we try to seek love by giving, just as we have always done with our mother!

Ts🌹

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17/11/2025

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• How is your family system impacting your everyday life?

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•How the understanding of how life always unfolds in your favour will set you free!

Life does only what is right.

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16/11/2025

🇦🇺 Acknowledging what is set us free.
What does it mean? To acknowledge what is? Humbleness is the acknowledgment of what is.
This is what places the work within the field at the edge of psychotherapy, the absence of mental constructs and protections, personas we might have put in any childhood trauma, interrupted movements, so to speak, but the capacity to go in depth with what really is the problem.

When we tend to save our mother, when guilt is still unaddressed, we remain superior to others, “arrogant”, we stay stuck in that childish “pride” and “we feel sorry” for others, or “I am happy for them”, while in truth we are sorry and regretful for the loss. In contrast, actually, that “sorry” is for ourselves, and our incapacity to go beyond the protection mechanism, beyond that anger, and that pride and see that there are still those ancient tears never released.

When someone attempts to save their mother and does not need her, they often end up in regret, relationship after relationship, as nobody can stay for long with someone who does not need them.
Standing above and not needing anyone is a solid lonely contract, while the relationship is sealed when there is a good and solid “I need you!”.

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12/11/2025

🇦🇺 “I TOLD YOU🫵🏼”.

The father is the courage to dream, to break every rule, to dare for something greater, to ask for more, to initiate. But once the initiation is done, it is the mother who embodies abundance, success, money, and fame, surrendering to the greatness of life itself.

Is it the father who moves the initiative, but it is the mother who bears the fruits.

Often, people take their father for safety, but they don’t fully dare to take from their mothers; they don’t face that guilt, they don’t surrender to life, they don’t trust her, they are resentful towards her, or they think she could not make it, she was not enough, depressed and so on. Therefore, they become forceful, they never stop, and with it, they never acquire life’s fruits!

The fruits, the success, the abundance, the fame are the harvest taken in the time of rest. In mother's time: SURRENDER!

The more we remain in harmony with the flow of life, the more we stay in alignment with its nectar.
The more we force things, the further we go with the flow.

It is not the one who works the hardest or does the most who achieves the highest expression, but, on the contrary, the one who moves in harmony with life. And so with its surrendering and flow, the one who trusts!

I often state to people that I never take substances that could alter my state of being daily, even a simple coffee; I really make it a celebration once a month, simply because I don’t want anything that could alter my state of being, and so my point of connection with life’s natural flow and breathing rhythm.

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Once you state your word, you start your process!

11/11/2025

🇦🇺 If a woman cannot take her mother, she cannot take other women, either.
She can only lead them, like “a man”, or save them, maybe as she is trying to do with her mother.
When does a woman take her mother? When she can be vulnerable with other women, when she can stand with them at the same height, in the same battles/struggles, when she can surrender to them, she stands giant in front of her daughters, too.
If she tried to save her mother, she would try to save her daughters too, and that will make sure that at least one of them will lead her to a catastrophe, as unconsciously that daughter would say “The love of my mother is if she saves me, well I make sure to make her worry enough so our love will long continue!”.
When a woman closes her heart to her mother, she will go into safety mode. What does safety mode look like? A masculine presence. A prideful woman is a woman who has been hurt, often by her father, but her initiation into the world of struggle was with her mother. From this point forward, she would attract a man whom she would support like a little boy, not someone who could lead her and make her a pillar, and the queen in their family.

When she accepts her mother's love, her world is whole and joyful once again!

Ts🌹

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10/11/2025

🇦🇺 Men bond in battles, so in vulnerability.
No, not just in showing the trophies, but in leaning into one another through struggles. This is how they are the closest to their father, by asking for help.
When a man has the belief that he is better than his father, because his mother has probably pedestalized him as such, he is usually unable to open up or lean on his brothers, and so he grows in body but not in spirit.
A man who leans on the brothers for help, he is compassionate, and he has more space within him than he can fully explore in his presence as an adult and in service to humanity. A man's highest call and expression is his service to the greater destinies of the planet.

Does he have a role model? Does he look up to some of his brothers? A man who doesn't look up to anybody is lonely, and he is a child. Looking for a lead is one of the most humble acts towards achieving a service goal. When I am humble enough to acknowledge another brother’s victory and greatness, I have the foundation to call that gratitude in me. Until a man holds on to jealousy rather than appreciation, he pretends to be the only one for his mother.

His mother brings him up into the sky, making him feel invincible; his father brings him down to earth, instilling in him a sense of service.

Brotherhood is medicine, vulnerability is medicine.
Not “how grandiose I am as a coach!” but “how scared my little boy is!”; this is the medicine. This expands you as a man, as a soul, as a human being.

Celebrating almost four years of battles, service, and successes together with my bro .matteoromani, and to many more!

Ts🌹

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Once you state your word, you start your process!

05/11/2025

🇦🇺 When we do not express hidden emotions towards our parents, we remain stuck.
That movement doesn't flow towards them, and we distance ourselves from them rather than gaining closure. What is the opposite movement? Anger.
Anger brings us closer to humbleness and to what is. You see kids who have interrupted movements towards their parents; they are all “arrogant”.
Arrogance means that they feel like they don’t need their parents, but the most empowering act towards life is to enter into flow with it through our needs, and first and foremost, those towards our parents, then friends, brothers, and sisters, etc.

Kids who do not need their parents end up punishing themselves through sexuality, for example, the experience of their parents on the sexual level, the exclusion of one towards the other, as well as hurting themselves in rebellious acts like “I am not good!”, piercings, tattoos, forms of rebellion against the self.

Returning to oneness is, first and foremost, returning to one's parents.

Ts🌹

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04/11/2025

🇦🇺 For a young man, the representative of the mother is an indication of a child’s love; with them, he experiences the deepest sexual bonds, attraction is at a pinnacle there; however, he experiences the most difficult wounds and traumatic experiences to overcome. This is a process where he is evolving enough to the point of letting them go.
Evolving means that he takes from the partners, therefore from his mother, what has been given, and at that stage, he can detach. Typically, this accounts for approximately 85% of what has been provided, whether good or bad.
Once he has learned and taken enough of it for his upcoming stage, he is free of these “Chains”, and he can move towards his father fully, within that sphere of influence, who is his most prominent partner? The mother of his father.
With her, the relationship flows better, as love is less impulsive and explosive, and more mature.
The same is for a young woman with her father and, accordingly, with the father of her mother.

Often people state “Yeah but my grandfather was a bla bla bla…”; it won’t matter what he was, whether he was unavailable to bring harmony into that relationship, it might be the father of the grandfather, a lineage behind can take charge of the traits that were disharmonious, remember, don’t worry as the field moves only towards harmony so you are never given nothing, you never experience nothing that is not useful to you and to the group conscience itself.
Everything always goes towards the better!

Ts🌹

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Once you state your word, you start your process!

03/11/2025

🇮🇹 Nei primi nove anni di vita, il bimbo processa la sua prima separazione con la sua mamma, il parto.
Qualsiasi altra lieve o grande separazione che avviene nella sua vita durante quei momenti, si aggiunge a quella piú grande e principale che già stà processando, la nascita. Questa è la principale origine dei movimenti interrotti in età precoce, il separarsi dal nutrimento primo, la mamma, nella via e psicoteria moderna questo si chiama TRAUMA.
Un bimbo che vede una mamma indaffarata e non completamente disponibile per lui, probabilmente perchè anche lei cerca ancora qualcosa, solitamente il padre che manca, ovvero il senso della sua vita; egli crescerà con il subdolo pensiero “io non sono abbastanza”(per fare felice la mamma). Questo perchè anche lei non si sente abbastanza senza gli occhi del padre, forse perchè si sente in pericolo ad andare dalla madre, perchè anche lei è malata e precaria, e allora la mamma di questo bimbo non puó trovare la pace, senza la sua mamma.

La pace, la morte, lo stare fermi, il meditare, lo stare in silenzio, la calma, guardano a dove ti sei sentito piú in pace, nel grembo, nelle braccia, in presenza della mamma, chi si muove molto non ha preso quella pace a pieno.

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