Stemm Psychology

Stemm Psychology Dr Brooke Stemm is a Clinical Psychologist who works in Paddington Brisbane.

Earlier this year I moved my practice to our brand new space at .au. We are now three months in and it feels like home a...
01/08/2025

Earlier this year I moved my practice to our brand new space at .au. We are now three months in and it feels like home away from home. Here’s to all of the courage and growth that these walls will witness in the years to come.

Managing Cyclone Anxiety/Overwhelm With the fast-approaching cyclone Alfred soon to arrive into SE QLD and northern NSW,...
04/03/2025

Managing Cyclone Anxiety/Overwhelm

With the fast-approaching cyclone Alfred soon to arrive into SE QLD and northern NSW, many of us may be feeling anxious, overwhelmed, or on edge. This response is completely natural— afterall, our brains are wired to hone in on and respond to uncertainty and potential danger. If you’re struggling right now, here are some suggestions for managing stress and overwhelm.

These strategies won’t rid you of anxiety or stress - afterall- it IS a stressful situation (I’m anxious too!), however, with regular use these small things can help to slightly reduce the intensity of your anxiety and overwhelm, to make things feel a littlle more manageable:

☀️Focus on what you can control – Make sure you have your clear emergency plan in place to increase your sense of control and safety, check your supplies, and stay informed through reliable sources. Taking action can help reduce feelings of helplessness. If this means you need to take the day off work, then put your mental health first and do that (where possible).

☀️Contain news exposure – While staying updated is important, constant monitoring of the news or social media can heighten anxiety. Try setting specific times to check updates rather than scrolling continuously.

💫Stay connected – Anxiety thrives in isolation. Talk to friends, family, or neighbours about your concerns and check in with others who might be feeling the same way. A sense of common humanity can temper distress levels. But also recognise you may also need some breaks from cyclone discussions too.

☀️Contain your thinking and planning – Set clear times when you switch off from cyclone updates and planning. Give yourself permission to take short breaks— watch a show without your phone nearby, listen to happy music, take a warm shower or bath, immerse yourself in an enjoyable activity or task, even if just for half an hour at a time. This helps prevent exhaustion and can help to keep stress/cortisol levels from becoming overwhelming.

🧘‍♀️ Use grounding techniques – If you feel overwhelmed with a big surge of anxiety, try the 5-4-3-2-1 technique: Name 5 things you can see, 4 things you can touch, 3 things you can hear, 2 things you can smell, and 1 thing you can taste. This helps bring you back to the present moment and can reduce that acute overwhelm.

💨 Breathe intentionally – Try a simple breathing exercise: Inhale for 4 seconds, hold for 4 seconds, exhale for 6 seconds. This can signal your nervous system to slow down (but won’t be a fix all)

🎶 Soothe your nervous system with Polyvagal strategies – When anxiety/cortisol levels spike, engaging the vagus nerve can help bring your body back to a calmer state:
• Sing, hum, or gargle – The vibration stimulates the vagus nerve and sends a signal of safety to your body.
• Move your body – Running on the spot, shaking out your hands, having a dance party in the kitchen or stretching can help release built-up cortisol.
• Cold water on your face – Splashing your face or holding something cool against your skin, especially while holding your breath for 30 seconds, can trigger the dive reflex, which brings down heart rate and can calm your nervous system.
• Rhythmic rocking or tapping – Gentle side-to-side rocking or bilateral tapping (tapping one side of your body and then the other) can be grounding and soothing. Focus in on the sensations.

👧🧒 Supporting kids through their distress 👧🧒

Children look to us for cues on how to feel safe. Here’s how you can help them:

• Validate their feelings – Let them know it’s okay to feel scared or upset. Simple words like, “It’s normal to feel this way, and we’re doing everything to stay safe, I am here with you,” can help.
• Keep explanations simple – Answer their questions honestly but without unnecessary details that might increase fear.
• Create a sense of normalcy – Keep familiar routines where possible (mealtimes, bedtime stories) and offer distractions like games, crafts, or storytelling.
• Use calming strategies together – Deep breathing, singing a favorite song, or cuddling up to read a book can help soothe their nervous system through co-regulation.
• Encourage regular movement – Kids also store stress in their bodies. Playing a jumping game, dancing, or even running on the spot for 30 seconds can help them release some tension.

If you’re finding it really difficult to cope, support is available. Reach out to a trusted friend, GP, or mental health professional.

Take care and stay safe, everyone. We’re all in this together. ❤️

🌱 Sitting with Difficult Emotions 🌱Many people come to therapy hoping to stop feeling difficult emotions altogether. But...
01/02/2025

🌱 Sitting with Difficult Emotions 🌱

Many people come to therapy hoping to stop feeling difficult emotions altogether. But emotions aren’t the problem—resisting them is what keeps us stuck. Instead of pushing them away, we can learn to sit with them, tolerate them, and respond in ways that help us regulate, rather than react.

When we slow down and allow our feelings—without judgment or urgency—they lose their grip. We can notice, observe, and reframe, expanding our awareness instead of battling one part of our experience. Over time, this practice helps us move through discomfort rather than staying trapped in it.

Here’s a guide to getting started. Remember, this takes practice. Begin with smaller waves before working through the biggest ones.

Anxiety often feels like something we need to fight or push away, but what if we tried something different? What if we a...
27/01/2025

Anxiety often feels like something we need to fight or push away, but what if we tried something different? What if we acknowledged it, sat with it, and gave it space to exist without judgment?

Welcoming anxiety doesn’t mean we like it or want it to stay forever—it’s about recognising it as part of being human. When we stop resisting, we reduce its power and create room to respond with curiosity and compassion.

Your feelings are valid, but they don’t have to define you. Sometimes, simply saying “hello” to anxiety is the first step to changing your relationship with it.

As many of us return back to our normal routines this week, I wanted to wish you all a happy new year. I hope this year ...
08/01/2025

As many of us return back to our normal routines this week, I wanted to wish you all a happy new year. I hope this year offers many opportunities for growth, compassion, self-reflection, excitement, stillness, and joy. Also looking forward to seeing what’s in store for Stemm psychology too, as we prepare to move into our new premises, .au in April 2025

We will be taking a well-deserved break over the Christmas period. Please note our clinic closure hours, during which ti...
16/12/2024

We will be taking a well-deserved break over the Christmas period. Please note our clinic closure hours, during which time our admin support will also not be online.

For existing clients, you will now have received a Christmas closure email with support options and crisis contacts for this closure period, should they be required.

We wish you a very safe, relaxed and peaceful Christmas period and look forward to working with you again in the new year.

Stemm Psychology

🪑Understanding Chair Work in Therapy 🪑Has your therapist suggested you try “Chair Work” and you thought it sounded a bit...
19/07/2024

🪑Understanding Chair Work in Therapy 🪑

Has your therapist suggested you try “Chair Work” and you thought it sounded a bit strange? Yes, Chair Work can feel a bit odd at first, but it is often a key experiential technique used within both schema therapy, and many other therapeutic approaches, and many of my clients are quite surprised how useful it can be in their therapy journey.

Chair work can give voice to our inner parts, helping us to explore, understand, and resolve internal conflicts and learned patterns of thinking and behaving. It involves using chairs to represent different parts of the self, or in some cases, different people in a client’s life. This generally allows for a more embodied and interactive approach to therapy, and one which assists deeper emotional engagement.

🪑🪑🪑What Does it Look Like In Action?

* In chair work, several chairs are laid out in various positions around the room, with each chair representing a different part of self (or, different people in a clients life). For instance, depending on the purpose of the chair work, we might have the inner critic chair, the vulnerable child chair, the anxious over controller chair, the detached protector chair etc (amongst others).
* Role-playing: chair work can then involve either imagining or acting out dialogues between the conflicting parts of yourself or with significant others, or considering how each part of self might answer specific questions (e.g in speaking to your detached protector, we might ask it “why are you showing up? What are you trying to protect (client name) from?)
* Perspective-taking: Whilst not always required, often physically moving between chairs to experience different viewpoints and to help visualise different parts of self can be useful.
* Increased Self-Awareness and Emotional release: often clients find chair work enables them to more deeply connect with and understand different parts of their self, and assists with processing emotions in a safe, controlled environment.

So even if chair work does seem a bit odd when your therapist suggests it, I’d definitely recommend leaning in and giving it a go. It really can be surprising what we learn!

🧠 How Does Trauma Change the Brain?Exposure to childhood trauma can have profound effects on the brain, changing its str...
11/07/2024

🧠 How Does Trauma Change the Brain?

Exposure to childhood trauma can have profound effects on the brain, changing its structure and function. Some of these changes include:

🧠 Amygdala: The brain’s fear center becomes larger and overactive, leading to heightened anxiety, hypervigilance, and an exaggerated stress response. This means any reminders of the trauma (even sometimes unconscious ones) can send your amygdala into overdrive.
🧠 Hippocampus: Responsible for memory and learning, it can shrink in size due to trauma, affecting memory processing and emotional regulation. This means memories can be fragmented and unclear and it can make it difficult for the body/brain to distinguish between danger in the past, and danger that’s occurring now.
🧠 Prefrontal Cortex: Involved in decision-making and impulse control, trauma can impair the function in this brain region, leading to difficulties with concentration, planning, and self-regulation. It also makes it much more difficult to think clearly and logically when emotionally triggered.

💡 Why It Matters?
Understanding these changes helps us comprehend the deep impact trauma has on mental health and behaviour, reducing victim blaming and assisting us in treatment planning. .

🛠️ Healing the Brain:
The good news is, the brain CAN change and heal. It can build new pathways and recover.
Therapy: Approaches like EMDR, cognitive-behavioral therapy (CBT), schema therapy and mindfulness based interventions can assist in reducing the intensity of trauma responses and helping to develop healthier beliefs about self, others and the world. .
🏃🏻‍♀️‍➡️Self-Care: Regular exercise, yoga, healthy nutrition, and adequate sleep can assist the body and brain to regulate and feel safe.
👩🏻‍🤝‍👩🏽 Social Support: Strong relationships and community connections which promote a sense of safety and trust can also play a key role in recovery.

Trauma may have changed your brain, but with the right support and interventions, you can help it to heal.

Did I mention that I loved the   movie so much? Why, you may ask? Read on (potential spoiler alert)Because in my work, I...
09/07/2024

Did I mention that I loved the movie so much? Why, you may ask? Read on (potential spoiler alert)

Because in my work, I firmly believe that it is the sum of our parts that makes us whole, and this is the message that was at the core of the movie.

In therapy, I do a lot of “parts” work with my clients which involves identifying and engaging with the different aspects or “parts” of their self. These parts might include the inner critic, the wounded child, the caretaker, the detached protector, and others, each representing a different cluster of emotional responses, coping behaviours, and perspectives developed through their own unique life experiences.

Bringing compassion to our different parts is essential for fostering self-acceptance and healing. By approaching these parts of ourselves with kindness and understanding, we can learn how to respond more effectively when the less helpful parts of us show up (I’m looking at you inner critic and over-analyser, just to name a few!)

By bringing understanding and guidance to these different parts of self, we allow integration of these aspects into a cohesive, balanced sense of self.

Sounds like a lot huh? But the good news is that there are real, practical, and evidence-based ways to do this work, including therapies like Internal family systems or Schema Therapy, just to name a few.

……..Gosh I loved how Joy showed anxiety so much compassion, but with firm guidance as well (“anxiety, you have to let her go” “you don’t get to choose who she is”). That hug between all the parts at the end was just 👌🏻 🤯 for my therapist brain.

So, if you haven’t seen Inside out 2 yet, I highly recommend it! It might just be the beginning of your very own parts work journey 💫

Great news! As of 1st July 2024, eligible clients who see a Clinical Psychologist under the Better Access Scheme will no...
01/07/2024

Great news! As of 1st July 2024, eligible clients who see a Clinical Psychologist under the Better Access Scheme will now receive an increased rebate per 50 minute Medicare session. The new rebate of $141.85 will apply to clients who attend under a valid Mental Health Care Plan, Psychiatry referral under Better Access, or those who attend under an Eating Disorders Plan.

Each client must have sessions remaining in their yearly allowance for this rebate to be applied, as well as appropriate reviews from their referring doctors.

To learn more about the Medicare rebates, you can view this link:https://www.mbsonline.gov.au/internet/mbsonline/publishing.nsf/Content/B013E0789A07D708CA258B030013670A/$File/PDF%20Version%20of%20the%20MBSBook%20-%201%20July%202024.pdf

My website will also be updated later this week with the relevant information.

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I’m back in the chair for 2024! I hope you have had/are having a lovely break. I’m feeling refreshed and I’m excited to ...
05/01/2024

I’m back in the chair for 2024! I hope you have had/are having a lovely break. I’m feeling refreshed and I’m excited to witness some amazing courage and growth in this little space this year 💚

Wishing you a very happy new year from us to you!
01/01/2024

Wishing you a very happy new year from us to you!

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1/261 Given Terrace
Paddington, QLD
4064

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Monday 9am - 6pm
Thursday 9am - 6pm
Friday 8am - 1pm

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