01/08/2022
As a mother, breastfeeding my kids has been one of, if not THE most challenging aspects so far.
There were things I loved about it.
💕The closeness of the cuddles.
💕The feeling of their soft warm skin against mine. 💕Knowing I could comfort my babes through anything.
But there was far more I disliked about it.
Actually dislike feels too nondescript, and doesn't really cut it for me. 'Hated and and thought it could EAD' is far more accurate.
Things like:
⚡️The enduring pain (thanks, Raynauds).
⚡️The whole body shakes, aches & pains of mastitis.
⚡️The painful blocked ducts.
⚡️Engorged breasts that felt like they might explode. ⚡️The leaking through clothes.
⚡️Cluster feeding.
⚡️Lacking any feelings of being my own person.
Still, as many mothers before me have & will long after my time, I persevered.
For 6 weeks with Isaac.
Then 14 months with both my girls.
While it was all still raw for me, too often looked back and felt like I'd somehow 'failed' with Isaac, in my mind I 'only' made it to 6 weeks.
In hindsight, I'm damn proud of myself for all I was able to do, against the odds.
But especially for having the knowledge (& support) to STOP trying to feed Isaac when it was clear it was playing a starring role in my spiraling mental health at the time.
So, a huge high five and an even bigger 'You're doing FU***NG awesome MAMA!!!' for all the new mamas out there.
Together let's get society to a place where we all feel free & completely supported to feed our babes, in whichever form that takes 💕
To show some love for my new mamas this Week:
✨ Breastfeeding? Receive a FREE 'MAMA' oil with every Mother's Milk sold this week
✨ Not breastfeeding? Buy any other tea and let me know you're a new mama in the 'Add a note' section of your cart page, and I'll add a complimentary oil blend to your order, too 🤍🤍