18/07/2025
Jayden, 15 â Out-of-Home Care Athlete
Jayden is a talented rugby player who lives in a residential care home. She was removed from her biological family at age 9 due to and and has since been placed with multiple carers. Jayden struggles with trust, keeps people at a distance, and rarely speaks about her past. But on the field, she comes alive. is where she feels in control. praise her, teammates respect her, and for 80 minutes, sheâs not a âkid in careâ sheâs just Jayden, the .
She trains hard, eats well for recovery and energy, and avoids events to make every game. Her self-worth depends entirely on performance. If she plays well, she feels good. If she misses a tackle, she shuts down. Sheâs terrified of not because of pain, but because she fears losing her .
Jayden has no real plan for life after sport. She doesnât see herself as anything other than âthe athlete.â have noticed that she becomes withdrawn and even during off-season or after losses. She , saying, âI donât need it, I just need to win.â
Without intentional support, Jaydenâs strong athletic identity could become a risk. If sheâs injured or dropped from the team, the fallout could trigger a breakdown, because no oneâs helped her build identity beyond the game. I've seen it first hand. Many athletes see their whole as being tied to their sport. They often feel proud and fulfilled when they do well in their , and they spend a lot of time and effort training and competing. This strong sense of being âan athleteâ is called athletic identity (Brewer et al., 1993).
The more someone sees as their main , the more their whole life can start to revolve around it, how they eat, who they hang out with, how they spend their time. This can lead to high self-confidence and great performance while theyâre competing (TuĹĄak et al., 2005), but it can also be a problem if it becomes their only identity.
If donât get a chance to explore who they are outside of , like other , , or , it can be hard for them to adjust when sport is taken away. Lemmons (2019) points out that this can be when they and arenât prepared for life after sport. Thatâs why itâs so important for athletes to build a strong sense of who they are beyond just being an athlete.