New Beginnings - Personal Development

07/10/2024

Who are you?
Alice in Wonderland had many metaphors...
I again ask...
Who are you?
🙏

We often spend so much time wearing different hats—being a good spouse, parent, friend, and employee—that we forget to ask ourselves the most important quest...

19/09/2024

"No amount of money ever bought a second of time"

13/09/2024

Perceptions rule our world,
Whats stopping you from just being who you are?

11/09/2024

Everyday is RUOk, though today we get that little reminder to promote that everyday is RUOk day
So in your travels today, tomorrow, next year and next month and beyond...
Remember, RUOk?

Im always here to help those in need and ive been at times, not ok myself.
Working in the space where I am able to help others, I know just how critical it can be to ask, RUOk.

So my message is, RUOk?
If so, Great!
If not, please reach out...Any day
Have a blessed day 🙏

10/09/2024

Get a Life...
I finally get it!
Now you get yours!

08/09/2024

Here's a list of 10 life principles that draw from the core values found across various cultures and religions around the world:

1.**Compassion**
Show kindness and empathy towards others.
2. **Respect**
Honor the dignity and rights of all individuals.
3. **Integrity**:
Be honest and uphold strong moral principles.
4. **Gratitude**:
Appreciate what you have and express thankfulness.
5. **Humility**:
Recognize your limitations and value the contributions of others.
6. **Justice**:
Strive for fairness and equality in all your actions.
7. **Courage**:
Face challenges and adversity with bravery.
8. **Generosity**:
Share your resources and time with those in need.
9. **Wisdom**:
Seek knowledge and understanding to make informed decisions.
10. **Harmony**:
Foster peace and balance in your relationships and environment.

These principles are inspired by the teachings of major world religions and cultural values, aiming to promote a harmonious and fulfilling life

04/09/2024

No point stressing over not knowing if theres something to stress about.
It'll cause something to stress about

29/08/2024

Forgiveness isnt about letting them off!
Forgiveness is giving them the weight of your Trauma that they caused and Empowering you to be ok, to not know, if they feel it or not.

The weight of your trauma is your reciept for the pain you went through.
If you forgive, the weight they put on you would be theirs.
And you would be able to feel your authentic self.

Dont forget to forgive YOU!
Your reciepts to your Guilt...
Forgive your past and grow because of it.
It has helped you not be the person you no longer is.
Your qualities are a result of your guilt.
Be ok with your past and forgive yourself for holding onto the weight of your past and be ok who you are.
You are worthy and you are worth it!
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14/08/2024

Whilst listening to Dr Barkley I started to consider the connection with ADHD and Childhood Trauma on our Default Mode Network (DMN) and the connection with relationship 'Mimicking' in Neurodivergent adults.

So what is DMN?
Think of the DMN as the "daydreaming" network. It's active when we're not focused on external tasks.
Childhood trauma can increase activity in the DMN during emotional or memory-related tasks.
This altered development might affect emotional regulation and self-reflection.
When considering the Central Executive Network (CEN), and deficiencies can be exasperated through our executive function
The CEN handles focused attention, problem-solving, and decision-making.
Children exposed to trauma may show less CEN activity during social or emotional tasks.
This imbalance can lead to heightened emotional reactivity, impulsivity, and stress difficulties.
This can lead to such diagnoses as Adjustment Disorder or Major Depressive Disorder or Adult Neurodivergence (ADHD and Autism)

Individuals with ADHD and high-functioning Autism have unique brain wiring.
Their emotional responses and mood regulation can be affected differently due to these conditions.
Sometimes, their mood may oppose their partner's, leading to intense interactions with someone who may not understand the individual as having Bipolar tendencies
This got me thinking about Childhood Trauma and how the brains function as a result
If Trauma can create these behavioural changes within the brains function, surely healing these traumas can reverse the impacts.
I have researched alot of Dr Joe Dispenza and highly recommend his books, and podcasts etc on youtube.

So, in summary, trauma can alter brain networks, affecting emotional processing. When combined with neurodivergence, it can create opposing moods between partners.
Similar to 2 postive ends of a magnet.
Whether good or bad, these interactions are influenced by the brain's unique wiring.
Remember, this is a simplified explanation, but it captures the essence of how trauma and neurodivergence play a role in mood dynamics and its very real impact on relationships

For those interested to learn more about our brains, Id recommend starting here.
Dr Joe Dispenza

Interesting new content

06/08/2024

https://youtube.com/shorts/J2JlsPqHV7E?si=4CCd8uh328hlJIrw

Enjoy the videos and music you love, upload original content, and share it all with friends, family, and the world on YouTube.

28/07/2024

You cannot know what you cannot do until you cannot do it.

Do what youve always done, youll get what youve always got.

Dont be who you wish you werent, Be who you know you can Be.

If you love others more than you love yourself, think about them and give them the best version of you instead of being so selfish...put yourself first and Love yourself the most. GIve the world the You they deserve instead of putting your validation first.
Live you the most so you improve their life by a better version of you.

Love thyself is to know thyself.
Knowing you aren't perfect makes you perfectly imperfect.

27/07/2024

Wisdom is Knowledge Applied