09/02/2026
THE STORY OF LIFE..
Two stories in two weeks!!! It's been a while people.. it's been a while. But I guess that's life… it passes.. one day to the next.. and many times I've thought “that would make a good story”. the 12 babies of Christmas.. yes 12 babies in 12 days!. the antics of the Grandies.. Nate, 4, guess what I've got in my pocket for you Poppa? And then pulls out the rude finger 🫣. more tales from the Coffee pot.. which always seems to be spilling at the moment, and if you remember, a spilt coffee means too much haste and life is too busy.. she who teaches is she who most needs to learn..Sally's google search which culminated in “Ask your Mother”.. definitely a high point in my life, which you'll understand if you know how capable and independant Ms Sally is!!
And then today's story, which also nearly didn't get written.. so I guess there are two parts to this story..
1 why am I not writing?
And
2 how does this photo tell the story of life?
Why am I not writing? As usual, I didn't come on to write this.. it's just appearing as I write.. I guess it means someone needs to hear it, whoever and wherever you are. Why am I not writing? Because I love to write! It's fun.. I enjoy it.. I learn from it everytime (even if you don't)..
But lately, I've had some other things I'm supposed to write.. some recruitment adverts and stories.. and, for some reason, I don't want to write those.. can't bring myself to write them! I don't know why.. I can't figure out why I don't want to write a post about how stunning Port Lincoln is.. how great our people are.. what an amazing team of Doctors and Nurses we work with.. and how it's the best of all worlds when it comes to work-life integration.
Yep, you read that right - I don't talk about work-life balance, I talk about work life integration.. if you need to keep your life and work seperate, there's something wrong with the work you're doing! And maybe we can take that further, there is something wrong with your perception of the work you're doing.. Think your work is not important? I call bu****it!!! Give me any job you like and I will give you a reason why you matter and what you do matters!!
I've said it before and I'll say it again.. those Guys and Dolls who drive around before daylight picking up our rubbish do one of the most important jobs on this planet!! In fact the advent of systematic sewerage and rubbish collection has done more for health and longevity than any other measure in history.. including all the advice and medication my colleagues and I provide!
Anyway.. back to the writing.. I'm not writing because I think that I shouldn't be writing because I need to write the advertorials and I don't want to do that, so I haven't let myself write the good stuff.
But now I've decided, stuff it!! (In my brain it's a different word but I'd better not write that 😉) I can write whatever the heck I want to write.. and I want to write stories.. so, I will. And maybe, every now and then I'll divert across and write my advertorial to attract more Docs our way.. but I'll do it when I feel like it.
The irony, of course, is that even without the Advertorials we've attracted 3 new Docs who are joining us in the next couple months.. maybe the videos work better than my writing anyway (man I hate making videos though!!!) it all comes out in the wash!!!
Back to the story of life..
You see.. when I have a shower I wash my hair first.. then condition.. then body wash.. then rinse out the conditioner.. But David does it body wash then shampoo. I don't get why he does it that way.. he doesn't understand why I do it my way.
But, ya know.. we both get out of the shower clean.. with hair washed.. no stress!
And it just goes to show there is more than one way to get the deed done - whatever that deed maybe..
6+3=9.. and so does 5+4.. 2+7.. 1+8..
There is more than one way to skin a cat!! More than one way to get the job done. And it doesn't need to be done “your” way! As long as the quality and safety is there, just let it get done.. in fact, many times, your way is not the best way.. let’s hark back to the recruitment strategy of video over writing.. definitely not my choice.. definietly more successful than i could have made it! And I guess that means we also have to hark back to Ms Independence.. she had to Ask her Mother.. but her Mother also had to leave it (the recruitment) in her hands! Not gonna live that one down for a while!
Everyone does it differently.. there is not one “right” way to live in this world.. and if there is, it may not be your way..
Have a great week people.. and as you meander through the days have a thought.. Do you want to be right.. or Happy?
Dr Kris xx
Photo: Conditioner before shampoo?! Who does that!