03/09/2021
I’ve lost it!
Have you seen it?
I had it somewhere, but it seems to have disappeared!!
I don’t feel very good without it, and the more I look, the harder it seems to find!
What can i do?
I’m not talking about that odd sock in the washing, or the pennies down the back of the couch…I’m talking about my MOTIVATION!!
I struggled last week to get motivated. I felt like I was walking through thick slimy mud and it kept getting thicker! I was almost at a stand still! I felt a flatness, and it oozed onto everyone around me.
And, of course, catch 22! … I ended up not motivated to find my motivation!!
In speaking to friends and clients, I realised I was not alone in this experience.
I am sharing my learnings in the hope it may help you find yours if you are similarly stuck.
So, what did I do?
1. I acknowledged that I had lost it rather than blindly trying to push through:
I found space (not easy in lockdown! a cuppa, hiding on my front deck worked) to sit and really feel what was going on for me. While I sat in this space, as uncomfortable as it was, I realised I did NOT want to be here.
I wanted to change the situation, the first shoots of my motivation peeked through the dark soil
2. I talked to someone useful:
That evening I went for a walk with my partner (before curfew!). The simple process of having someone listen helped me begin to shift my stuckness. I started to gain perspective. I also asked how he copes when he loses motivation? “Just start”, he said! So ‘Yang’, and actually pretty good advice 😊
3. I increased my self care -
Which I have to say, on reflection, was pretty lacking! It’s a real balance working, homeschooling, ensuring there is food for the many breaks in the day, playing domino championships so screen is minimised, even having my beautiful family around 24/7! So I went for that swim, did that yoga, read that book
4. I found the thing that brings me joy -
Doing something creative always brings me joy, so I took myself to that zone where time disappears and I get completely absorbed in what I am doing. I love writing, so I wrote this blog!
5. I created boundaries and a more structured format to my day -
So simple and so easily lost in the chaos of everything. I set myself a daily schedule and let everyone know when I am available and when I am not … and funnily enough I realised they don’t need me as much as I thought they did!!
The sun seems a little brighter today, the wind feels gentler, my energy has shifted.
Phew!
I found it, my motivation returned
These are challenging times, be gentle on yourself
I hope, if yours is lost, you can find it too
(hint: it’s not down the back of the couch!)
Take care, Sarah x
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· Get motivated
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· As well as increase your emotional wellbeing
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