Melissa Ferrari - Psychotherapist & Relationship Expert

Melissa Ferrari - Psychotherapist & Relationship Expert Today Show Relationship Expert on Channel 9 Melissa is also a Clinical Member of The Australian College of Relationship Counsellors.

Registered Clinical Psychotherapist, PACFA Accredited Supervisor, Couple Counsellor & Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy (PACT) Certified, PACT Faculty Member and PACT Institute Teacher in Training. Melissa Ferrari is a registered psychotherapist and counsellor with more than 20 years of experience in couples counselling and individual therapy. She is one of Australia’s most sought-after therapists and is regularly called upon as a relationship expert in national media including The Today Show on channel 9. Melissa uses a range of proven approaches in her practice, and is one of few therapists in the country to have received training from American clinician and researcher Stan Tatkin, who is one of the world’s most renowned pioneers in couples counselling. He is the founder of the PACT Training Institute and the developer of the PACT method (Psychobiological Approach to Couple Therapy), which is an approach Melissa uses in her practice. Known for her warmth and engaging personality, Melissa’s ability to identify and help people work through many of the key issues facing couples today has had a profound and transformative effect on many of her clients’ lives. She has helped thousands of individuals and couples gain insight into their relationship problems, resolve ongoing conflict and work towards maintaining and developing a loving relationship. Through private sessions (individually or as a couple) as well as through intensive retreats, Melissa helps couples decipher their behaviour patterns and recognise their partner’s own patterns to promote change and personal growth, to help couples move towards love, intimacy, connection and happiness together. Don’t give up on your relationship - let Melissa help you transform it!

Do you and your partner keep fighting, often over the same issues? Is the lack of passion and intimacy a constant remind...
30/01/2026

Do you and your partner keep fighting, often over the same issues? Is the lack of passion and intimacy a constant reminder of how far you have drifted apart? Do you feel lonely in your relationship? Do you suffer from anxiety or depression or not get excited about simple things in life anymore?

Couples Counselling can help you reignite love and passion and teach you tools so you and your partner are better prepared for problems that may arise. Individual psychotherapy or counselling can help you get more excited about your life again.

Secure your spot > https://melissaferrari.as.me/schedule/52d6725c

A good reminder for relationships...When things get tough, try using attraction—like kindness, playfulness or connection...
30/01/2026

A good reminder for relationships...
When things get tough, try using attraction—like kindness, playfulness or connection—instead of guilt or blame. You're partners, not opponents ❤️

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27/01/2026

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If you’ve ever lived with your in-laws, you’ll know how quickly things can feel mentally and emotionally draining. From ...
27/01/2026

If you’ve ever lived with your in-laws, you’ll know how quickly things can feel mentally and emotionally draining. From housework imbalance to blurred boundaries, this piece breaks down why it’s so hard, and how couples can protect their relationship while living under the same roof 😬

Read full Dear Melissa here > https://tinyurl.com/4568xyea

'𝘖𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴, 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦...
26/01/2026

'𝘖𝘷𝘦𝘳 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦, 𝘺𝘰𝘶 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘦𝘯𝘤𝘰𝘶𝘯𝘵𝘦𝘳 𝘮𝘢𝘯𝘺 𝘥𝘪𝘧𝘧𝘦𝘳𝘦𝘯𝘵 𝘬𝘪𝘯𝘥𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴. 𝘛𝘩𝘦𝘳𝘦 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘦 𝘧𝘳𝘪𝘦𝘯𝘥𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴, 𝘭𝘰𝘷𝘦𝘳𝘴, 𝘭𝘰𝘯𝘨-𝘵𝘦𝘳𝘮 𝘱𝘢𝘳𝘵𝘯𝘦𝘳𝘴 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘰𝘧𝘵𝘦𝘯 𝘵𝘪𝘮𝘦𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘦 𝘵𝘺𝘱𝘦𝘴 𝘰𝘧 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱𝘴 𝘵𝘩𝘢𝘵 𝘥𝘦𝘧𝘺 𝘭𝘢𝘣𝘦𝘭𝘴 𝘢𝘭𝘵𝘰𝘨𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘦𝘳. 𝘌𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘳𝘦𝘭𝘢𝘵𝘪𝘰𝘯𝘴𝘩𝘪𝘱 𝘸𝘪𝘭𝘭 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘵𝘰 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳 𝘭𝘪𝘧𝘦 𝘰𝘳 𝘣𝘳𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘴𝘰𝘮𝘦𝘵𝘩𝘪𝘯𝘨 𝘯𝘦𝘸 𝘰𝘶𝘵 𝘰𝘧 𝘺𝘰𝘶𝘳𝘴𝘦𝘭𝘧; 𝘦𝘢𝘤𝘩 𝘪𝘴 𝘢𝘯 𝘰𝘱𝘱𝘰𝘳𝘵𝘶𝘯𝘪𝘵𝘺 𝘵𝘰 𝘭𝘦𝘢𝘳𝘯 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘨𝘳𝘰𝘸 𝘢𝘯𝘥 𝘵𝘰 𝘣𝘦 𝘤𝘩𝘢𝘭𝘭𝘦𝘯𝘨𝘦𝘥' ~ 𝘒𝘦𝘭𝘴𝘦𝘺 𝘏𝘶𝘳𝘸𝘪𝘵𝘻

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23/01/2026

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I loved contributing to this piece!Meeting the in-laws can be nerve-wracking, and it was great to share some practical t...
23/01/2026

I loved contributing to this piece!
Meeting the in-laws can be nerve-wracking, and it was great to share some practical tips to help make the experience a little easier for couples navigating that first meeting 🤍

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Meeting the in-laws for the first time? Read this firstBy Gabrielle Oehlmann| 6 hours agoPicture this: You're wrapped up in that lovey honeymoon phase with your new partner when out of the blue they ask you to meet their parents.It's a sweet request and likely a sign that your relationship is moving...

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20/01/2026

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Allow partners to get messy. Give them time and space to reveal what is actually going on.

Letting them be noisy and loud, vulgar, childish, boring, and so on will help you see their arousal capacities and deficits.

Physical violence should never be tolerated and you should always refer them to appropriate resources if you suspect abuse. However, obnoxious behavior, should be expected.

Ensure you remain self-regulated enough to tolerate high and low affects without intervening too soon, too late, or unnecessarily.

Feeling like the third wheel in your own relationship?This week’s Dear Melissa tackles a tough question many couples fac...
20/01/2026

Feeling like the third wheel in your own relationship?
This week’s Dear Melissa tackles a tough question many couples face: what happens when a best friend seems to come before the relationship? 💔

Melissa breaks down boundaries, priorities, and why wanting to feel chosen isn’t “being dramatic” — it’s asking for the basics.

Read full article 👇🏼

He spends almost every evening with his best friend, leaving her barely any time during the week.

18/01/2026

I really enjoyed my time on The TODAY Show on Saturday morning, such an important and meaningful conversation to be part of 💛

January is a time for resolutions, but for many it’s also one of the most common months to experience separation and divorce. It can be an emotionally overwhelming time, filled with uncertainty, grief, and major life changes.

As a Relationship Expert, I’m here to help people navigate the emotional fallout of separation, offering guidance, clarity, and support through what can be a very challenging chapter.

✨ 𝐓𝐎𝐌𝐎𝐑𝐑𝐎𝐖 - 𝐒𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝟏𝟕𝐭𝐡 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 ✨I’ll be on TODAY Show this Saturday morning where we’ll be talking about how to heal...
16/01/2026

✨ 𝐓𝐎𝐌𝐎𝐑𝐑𝐎𝐖 - 𝐒𝐚𝐭𝐮𝐫𝐝𝐚𝐲 𝟏𝟕𝐭𝐡 𝐉𝐚𝐧𝐮𝐚𝐫𝐲 ✨

I’ll be on TODAY Show this Saturday morning where we’ll be talking about how to heal and set healthy boundaries after divorce or separation, and why prioritising self-care is so important during this time 🤍

Tune in at 8.40 am on Channel 9 👌

𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥-𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬Self-care doesn’t have to be expensive, complicated, or saved for “someday.” It’s...
15/01/2026

𝐅𝐞𝐞𝐥-𝐆𝐨𝐨𝐝 𝐒𝐞𝐥𝐟-𝐂𝐚𝐫𝐞 𝐓𝐡𝐚𝐭 𝐀𝐜𝐭𝐮𝐚𝐥𝐥𝐲 𝐖𝐨𝐫𝐤𝐬

Self-care doesn’t have to be expensive, complicated, or saved for “someday.” It’s the small, intentional choices we make daily that add up to a healthier, happier life.

Here are six simple ways to show up for yourself this year, no retreat or big budget required:

1.⁠ ⁠Keep It Personal
Your self-care should feel like you. Not what looks good on social media. Whether it’s 10 quiet minutes with a book or a walk around the block, build a routine that restores your energy.

2.⁠ ⁠Find Moments of Joy
Joy doesn’t have to be loud. A good coffee, a phone call with a friend, or just noticing the sunshine can shift your whole day. Seek those small wins — they matter more than you think.

3.⁠ ⁠Pause and Breathe
A few slow, mindful breaths can calm your nervous system faster than scrolling ever will. Meditation doesn’t need an app — just your attention and a few quiet minutes.

4.⁠ ⁠Move However You Want
Dance in your kitchen. Stretch in your lounge. Walk your dog with music in your ears. Moving your body, even briefly, releases feel-good chemicals and lifts your mood naturally.

5.⁠ ⁠Create Your Soundtrack
Music has the power to shift your state. Build a playlist that makes you feel calm, happy, or motivated — and hit play when your energy needs a reset.

6.⁠ ⁠Eat the Rainbow
Add more colour to your meals with fruits and veggies. It’s a simple way to fuel your body and mind — and a reminder that self-care starts from the inside out.

Self-care isn’t selfish. It’s essential. The more you fill your own cup, the more you have to give — and the better you’ll feel doing it ✨

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