20/10/2025
Did you know...Narcissistic abuse and trauma survivors are often diagnosed with chronic pain and autoimmune disorders because long-term exposure to cortisol and adrenaline — the body’s fight or flight chemicals — causes inflammation in our bodies. Inflammation causes pain, or worse, it causes our immune system to attack itself because it thinks the inflammation is caused by a disease it needs to eradicate. When someone lives under constant emotional abuse, their body is essentially trapped in a state of perpetual alarm. Each manipulation, insult, or gaslighting moment triggers the stress response, flooding the system with these hormones, even when there is no immediate physical danger. Over time, this chronic activation wreaks havoc on every organ, tissue, and cell.
Cortisol and adrenaline are designed for short-term emergencies — a sudden threat where your body needs to run, fight, or protect itself. But in the context of emotional abuse, these chemicals never get a break. The body thinks it is under constant attack, and in response, inflammation persists. Joints ache, muscles stiffen, headaches appear, digestion falters, and the nervous system remains hyper-vigilant. Survivors often describe feeling exhausted yet unable to rest, their bodies stuck between tension and fatigue. The mind carries the trauma, but the body physically manifests it.
The immune system, confused by the chronic inflammation, may misinterpret healthy cells as threats. This leads to autoimmune disorders, where the body begins to attack itself. Conditions such as fibromyalgia, rheumatoid arthritis, thyroid disorders, and chronic fatigue syndrome are disproportionately common among survivors of long-term emotional trauma. The damage isn’t just psychological; it’s biochemical, structural, and systemic.
Recovery from narcissistic abuse, therefore, cannot focus solely on mental healing. The body must also be nurtured back to health. Practices that calm the nervous system — meditation, mindful movement, safe relationships, therapy, and adequate rest — can slowly help the body learn that it is no longer in danger. Nutrition, gentle exercise, and medical support may also be necessary to repair damage caused by chronic inflammation. Understanding this connection validates survivors’ experiences: the pain and illness are not imagined, nor are they simply “stress.” They are the physical imprint of enduring abuse. Healing is holistic, addressing both mind and body, and over time, survivors can reclaim not only emotional peace but physical well-being as well.