21/03/2026
And even in the dark… you learn to see
…
“He taught me how to live.
And as much as it hurts to live without him…
this life…
I owe it to him.”
…
I heard these words this morning ….
and they didn’t just land in my mind…
they landed straight into my heart ❤️
Because this is the part no one prepares you for…
When the person who expanded your life…
becomes the space you now have to live without.
It’s a strange kind of paradox.
Gratitude and grief…
existing in the same breath 🌟
“I’m so thankful for you”…
and “I don’t know yet how to be here without you, i’m learning”
at the same time….
There are loves that don’t end
They don’t fade
They don’t disappear
They transform
They move from the outside…
to the inside.
From something you could touch…
to something that now lives in your mind body and soul
your choices,
your way of seeing the world 🌍
and this is where it gets real
….grief is not just missing someone
It’s becoming someone new
because of them…
and without them 💕
Some days it feels like it’s too much to hold
Like your body can’t contain that much love and that much absence at once and other days…
you realise that same love
is the reason you’re still standing.
And in constellation… we say:
I choose to stay
I choose to stay with life
I choose to stay with the pain
I choose to stay… even when somentimes part of me wants to leave.
Maybe this is the sacred part no one explains.
That the pain is not here to break you…
it’s here to reshape you to stretch your heart
wide enough
to hold both love and loss… at the same time.
and maybe the real honour…
is not to move on
but to live in a way
that makes their love visible through you💕
In how you love
In how you show up
In how you choose life… even when it hurts
Marta Piller Roner your words are courage,
Your pain… is love that still lives,
and the way you choose to be
that is something truly remarkable
I LOVE YOU TANTO I HONOUR YOU, KEEP INSPIRING MARTA 💓💓💓💓💓
“You didn’t leave…
you became the way I live”❤️