04/09/2025
I stayed in a relationship for far too long.
Not because it was good.
Not because I was weak.
But because part of me believed it was all I could get.
That’s what trauma bonds do.
They disguise themselves as chemistry.
They trick the nervous system into calling chaos “home.”
I wasn’t addicted to love. I was addicted to familiar.
And here’s what changed everything:
I stopped asking “Why can’t I leave?”
And I started asking,
“What does this relationship give my nervous system that I’ve been craving my whole life?”
Safety.
Validation.
Control.
Belonging.
Once I gave myself those things?
I didn’t need to stay anymore.
In the Aligned Woman Method, we gently unravel these stories, not by force, but by finally tending to the nervous system behind the story.
If you’re stuck in a pattern you know doesn’t serve you.
It’s not because you’re broken.
It’s because your body is trying to keep you safe.
And there’s another way.
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