15/04/2026
If you rehearse what you’re going to say before you speak, you’re not overthinking for no reason.
You’re trying to get it right.
To avoid saying the wrong thing.
To prevent that feeling afterwards.
Most people think this is just overthinking.
But often, it’s something deeper.
If your nervous system has learned that saying the “wrong” thing might lead to discomfort —
awkwardness, judgement, disconnection —
it tries to prevent that.
So it prepares.
Not because you’re doing something wrong.
Because your system is trying to help.
And when you understand that…
You stop putting so much pressure on yourself
and start working with it instead.
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