15/11/2025
This came up in practice this week and I think it’s something so many parents will relate to… even if they don’t realise it.
A patient had been struggling with chronic headaches for months. They thought they were just “stressed,” “burnt out,” or “not coping well.” But as we started to actually address the underlying issue in their body, something unexpected happened:
They noticed they felt calmer. More patient. Less reactive.
They were interacting with their kids and their husband in a way they were proud of.
And only then did they realise something huge…
Their crankiness, short temper, and emotional overwhelm weren’t personality flaws.
They were symptoms of a body stuck in dysfunction and pain.
When your body is hurting, whether it’s headaches, neck tension, low back pain, hormonal stress, or a nervous system running in survival mode, it changes how you show up. Not because you’re a bad parent or a rude partner, but because your brain is prioritising coping, not connection.
Pain takes energy.
Stress takes bandwidth.
A nervous system under pressure reacts before it reflects.
Once we started relieving the physical stress, their emotional world shifted too. They had more capacity. More patience. More presence. They felt like themselves again.
So if you’ve been short, snappy, overwhelmed, or “not yourself,” please know this:
❤️ It might not be your fault.
❤️ It might be your body asking for help.
❤️ And you absolutely deserve to feel regulated, supported, and connected again.
This is one of the reasons I love working with people, not just to help them feel better physically, but to help them reclaim the way they show up in their lives and their relationships.
If you’re feeling this way and your body has been whispering (or shouting) at you…
You don’t have to keep pushing through it.
Your calm is closer than you think.
And your family feels the difference, too.
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