07/05/2025
I have been too afraid to post this about living fearlessly.
I grew up in a fam home with 5 siblings, then 30 years with husband and 4 children.
Now single with an empty nest. In all my years of busyness I never gave a thought to or expected this feeling ๐ฅน
Im so used to and thrived on hustle still sometimes... e.g rush in to pay for my petrol forgetting that I don't have children back in the car ๐ง๐ฆ๐ถ๐ง. I can buy myself an icecream at the console without having to buy 5! ...That's how conditioned I am after 30 years.
Im experiencing a lack of spontaneous community. Connection doesn't just flow like it used to. I'm not good at planning, thinking and scheduling so struggle with a social life where I have to write a date for a cup of tea into my diary in advance, contact people at set intervals to stay in touch or join a social club to combat loneliness.
Who can relate?
I'm used to open living where people just picked up the phone and called (without texting first) or turned up. I used to walk around my home and not know half the people in it. I'd complain it was like central station...I wish I'd appreciated those days more.
Today. I'm running my small businesses, loving my 4 adult children, wonderful fam and friends, living maintaining 2 homes, holding space for clients in my wellbeing practise ๐คโจ๐
I've started hearing "you deserve a medal" "now you can do what you want" as if it's the best news ever. I felt a pang of sadness when friends said that ๐ข... what did that even mean? What did doing what I want look like?๐คทโโ๏ธ
It's ok, I'm adjusting and things are falling into place fast...
I think it means
๐ฎโ๐จ Remembering to stay in my body with awareness larger than me ๐ผ
Reflecting how intuitive guidance and manifestation has brought me through some fair challenges...listening to my body and trusting the process with gratitude.
Being curious with positive anticipation.
"Letting go" ๐ of trying to label who I am now after so many years in demanding and challenging "roles" ๐ค
Finding the balance between planning and allowing.
2025 60th birthday resolution
I've launched a year of living fearlessly ๐ฌ. Correction...a year of living courageously.
No more gripping on in fear.
With love, wisdom and a ton of faith ๐
I will consciously stop hovering over my finances, business, projects, loved ones ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ๐ฆ
I will spend time walking the earth with no more than 7 kilos of luggage.
Take my iPad and be a digital nomad to maintain my income.
I will be comfortable with my own company and awareness that I am never alone.
I will take more creative down time, more time in flow, dust off the paints, sketch pads, jigsaw puzzles.
I'll write, record my podcasts and begin to publish what I write without fear of judgement.
Will my finances provide ๐ฐ and my ducklings stay in a row? . ๐ฅ๐ฅ๐ฃ๐ฃ
I'll say it again, I'm in a year of living courageously. Hold me to it ๐
Suddenly I'm 60 and an empty nester. It's a big adjustment.
...Are you experiencing changes or lifestyle adjustments ...feeling the pull to make some decisions or resolutions going forward?
Do you need support to live courageously and tackle your bucket list?
Is fear stopping you?
Maybe you are an empty nester?
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With much love
Rosemary
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