23/02/2026
Are you taking all the blame?
In a break up we often blame ourselves for what has happened. There is no blame, it just was not a good fit.
Once we value what we bought to the relationship. Learn to understand that their values were different than yours, there is no blame. You can let go the struggle or the pain that you are feeling.
Carrying all the blame gives you the illusion of control.
Over - responsibility is often a coping strategy.
What responsibility are you holding onto that’s not yours??
Be comfortable saying this, “ i’m allowed to release what does not belong to me.”