16/05/2023
A common concern showing up in clinic from both parents and children, is sibling rivalry!
Navigating conflict can be both frustrating and exhausting! 🤯
As parents we can really affect the relationships our children have with each other, and the biggest mistake we can make is appearing to compare or choose sides with our children during disagreements.
For example - A child is happily playing on their own, while another child is seeking connection. An argument breaks out between the two as they struggle to agree. As a parent we have a choice, we can either correct the perceived negative behaviour (force sharing items, choosing an activity for them both, separating them). While this may seem like it "fixes" the problem this can often create resentment between the children as one will be left feeling unheard and punished.
To build connection, focus on joint outcomes, which allows each child to feel their needs are met! Meeting in the middle will avoid competition and ensure they don't feel like you are choosing sides! While their brains are still developing, this is the easiest way for you to help them build emotional resilience ✨
