13/03/2026
Self-care is often the first thing to disappear when life gets hard.
If you’ve ever been in session with me, you’ll know how often we talk about the ways we care for ourselves.
We are wired to care for others, often leaving ourselves behind in the process.
But if you’ve been in session with me, you’ll also know how we gently map out ways to bring care back in.
We ditch the grand plans: the complex gym routines, the expensive massages and facials, and the idea that “self-care” means being away from our kids or loved ones, alone and doing something ‘meaningful’ because this might be our only chance.
Woah… pressure much?
Instead, we come back to the absolute basics of what we need as humans to survive and the things that often fall away the quickest.
Sleeping.
Eating.
Showering
Movement.
Before we jump to anything more elaborate, we bring intention and meaning back to these small acts of caring for ourselves.
Alongside these, one of the most powerful ways I see self-care happen is when we allow others to care for us and help us felt our way back to these basic acts of care.
Giving us ten minutes to shower uninterrupted.
Bringing us food and allowing us time to eat.
Helping us find moments of rest and sleep.
Sometimes the biggest act of care for ourselves
is letting someone else do the caring.