21/12/2025
2025 has been a no-fluff year.
When I sit with it, what I notice isn’t fear or dread. It’s something quieter. A tenderness. That moment of hesitation before you step forward, knowing you can’t un-know what you now know.
I’ve seen this everywhere this year, in my work, in conversations, in myself. So many people learning how to be with the dark without getting stuck there… and without skipping over it either. That kind of learning doesn’t happen quickly. It takes years. It’s lived, not figured out.
Honestly, some of the best teachers here are kids, animals, and nature. Their presence. Their innocence. The way they just are. They show us how to stay close to what’s real without being swallowed by it. Nature reminds us that light and dark aren’t opposites - they move together.
I’ve also been reminded that love doesn’t always arrive softly.
Sometimes it comes with prickles. And prickles are protective. A lot of people carry them after years of masking, invalidation, or not feeling understood. Others protect themselves by giving too much, centring everyone else, even from depletion. Both are defences. Both once kept someone safe.
Neither is a flaw.
If there’s one thing I’m carrying forward, it’s this: tenderness and truth often come together. And taking the next step, even when it feels uncertain, still counts.
And lastly - thank you 🥹
To my clients, and to everyone who has supported my work and held space for me to do it. This year has been a huge period of growth, and I’m reeeeally looking forward to seeing what exciting things grow from it in 2026 ✨