
07/07/2025
Something I talk about in my birth course Birth Magic is the power of using our own Pavlovian response in birth to put ourselves into a state of ease. I have several music albums and smells (for example) that are associated with very deep states of relaxation to me, with deep ease and restoration. In particular, there are albums and artists I have practiced and taught Yin Yoga to a lot that the minute I hear them I am in an altered state - I’ll share them in the comments. I know not all teachers like to use music and that’s cool, but I do find that it can help condition students to drop in, and in the beginning that can be very helpful. Routine, ritual, repetition and familiarity are very very powerful for conveying safety and there’s a reason they’re a part of most religions I’m aware of. Warm water, familiar scents (my husband’s body, our scentless laundry powder, beeswax candles, etc), touch from people you know love you, familiar sounds (say of your street or your home) - these all subconsciously tell your system that things are ok. If you’re leaving your home to birth, do your best to consider your senses and bring things that activate them in a pleasant and safe way - what sounds, touch-or-feeling things (like blankets or textiles or items of clothing or whatever), smells (SUCH a powerful and underestimated one! was sharing about hawthorn and how it smells like amniotic fluid and that reminds us of birth and death and that’s a great example!)…you get the idea. Every sense matters. I know that in all my home births this has made a huge difference and in my freebirths in particular the comfort was important to allow me to stay in my body. I could orient to safety through my senses because of these supports, and my own background in and practice of finding safety in my body. Birth Magic is available to join any time, we have calls roughly every 6 weeks and the content is available for life and you’re more than welcome to share with your partner/doula whomever. 🌸