Regan Smith Psychologist

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Regan Sharp (she/her)
Psychologist
BPsych/BSocSci, MPsych, MAAPi

For private psychological services you can contact me at: multiplyingrainbows@gmail.com

For connection via Aftercare you can review find referral information here: https://www.mindaustralia.org.au/services/aftercare

For a one pager about my approach and Aftercare specific details please see the green bio on my Photos

15/06/2025

Have you gone through the WPATH process to affirm your gender? We’d love to talk to you about your experience! We are hoping to talk to people like you about what went well for you, and what could have been done better. We know the WPATH process can be stressful, so we’re want to hear from you about we can make it a better, safer and more affirming process or people in future.

Scan the QR code or click this link for more information/to participate: https://researchsurveys.deakin.edu.au/jfe/form/SV_ai0z9lJCbyMcggm

(Ethical approval – DUHREC 2023-216)

23/03/2025

“The mind narrates what the nervous system knows. Story follows state.”

28/02/2025
17/02/2025

The call by AAPi and eight other psychology bodies for the Federal Government to remove the 10-session limit on Medicare psychology sessions is highlighted in a story across News Corp publications today.

"A coalition of nine peak bodies have united behind a petition urging Health Minister Mark Butler to lift the cap for certain disorders, warning that under the current system people are “tapping in and tapping out” of mental health support when they can afford to access it, rather than based on medical need," the article read.

AAPi President Sahra O’Doherty said the current 10-session limit was more based on budget constraints than medical or clinical advice.

But Ms O’Doherty said not giving patients enough subsidised support to adequately treat their mental health conditions costs the health system more over time as people then needed either longer or more intensive treatment.

"The government is pouring so much funding into what we call a ‘sprinkling of mental health support’, but all it’s doing is band-aiding the problem, as opposed to really looking at what is a system that could support not just early intervention, but ongoing and potentially long-term support for people who desperately need it,” she said.

Sign the petition calling for an increase to the 10-session cap, and read the full article, here: https://ow.ly/E1vx50V10Mx

27/01/2025

Available for appointments in person (Naarm) or online

Regan (she/they) is a Psychologist with over a decade of experience supporting some of the most vulnerable individuals in our communities. As a neurodiversity-affirming and disability-inclusive practitioner, Regan brings a warm and grounded approach to her work. Their practice is built on a foundati...

30/12/2024

Just a few days till it's new year and I'm sure many of us have mixed feelings about this.

Almost like the year has gone by way, way too quickly.

Too much change, not enough change.

Whatever it is, maybe it's left you feeling a little behind on time.

And some of us may look back on the year that's passing by us with some really tough feelings too.

Maybe it's the bit of us holding on to guilt, saying - hey we still didn't manage to fix that thing about ourselves yet. Why is that?

Or disappointment, saying - why am I still here, still stuck?

And shame even pointing fingers too - directed at no one but ourselves.

Who's to blame for wasting all this time?, it says.

It's me, maybe I'm the problem.

Maybe I suck.

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To be honest with you, next year is supposedly a big one for me (I turn a certain decade old).

(Yes I'm turning 30)

Right now at this very moment I'm sitting in a little quiet place reflecting and writing this post.

And indeed, gosh, time has really flown by hasn't it?

So many goals and milestones that I thought I would have gotten to but haven't reached quite yet.

But this is where I take some time to pause and reflect.

Where instead of dwelling on all the things I have NOT gotten to or that I am STILL not yet...

I turn my attention to all the things I have done...

Those bits of growth, those tiny wins, the values I have chosen to act upon, whether for myself or the people I love.

All the while acknowledging the times I have faltered because I am not a perfect person too.

And overall I think a conclusion I have reached is also this.

That I am not at all ashamed of where I am.

And the truth is this - neither should you.

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So to you out there in this few days before the new year comes.

Please, I encourage you, take some time to think about the things you have done this year too.

And where in doubt, know this one single truth.

Aren't you still here, trying?

Just like me?

Step by step, because we arent perfect.

But we're still going.

Let's keep going.

No matter what, I think that's good enough too.

With love,
Hernping

💙💙💙


#2025

12/12/2024
12/12/2024

Incredibly disappointing

07/12/2024

✨10 things that have helped me the most with Complex PTSD✨

1. Turning down the volume on my inner critic voice and developing my inner mentor voice. https://personal-growth-programs.com/the-inner-mentor/

2. Shifting the way I parent myself from an authoritative model to a gentle and compassionate model. https://www.goodto.com/family/gentle-parenting-489844

3. EMDR - for shock trauma, for understanding flashback patterns, for fixed beliefs and stuckpoints, for schema/worldview re-patterning https://www.emdria.org/about-emdr-therapy/

4. Movement practices - both structured and unstructured, always with music, finding my own pace, never pushing my body to do something it doesn't want to https://experiencelife.lifetime.life/article/how-movement-therapy-can-heal-traumatic-stress/

5. Somatic Tracking - learning to notice my felt senses, observing how I respond to safety or danger signals, noticing what sensations I enjoyhttps://www.bch.org/documents/content/Somatic-Tracking-Exercise.pdf

6. Narrative Therapy and Parts work - embracing the stories I carry with me and the various parts of my Self https://positivepsychology.com/narrative-therapy/ https://integrativepsych.co/new-blog/what-is-parts-work-therapy-ifs

7. Small group witnessing circles - spaces with 3 to 10 people where I feel safe to share my truth and be seen https://medium.com/presencing-institute-blog/social-solidarity-circle-the-power-of-bearing-witness-2fd91fd821a0

8. Active Release - allowing my body to complete stress cycles through expressing sympathetic activation instead of idealizing a safe/calm state https://www.allworldshealth.com/blog/what-is-trauma-release

9. Sensory Menu - a list of activities that I use for balance, activation, soothing, and grounding https://www.theottoolbox.com/how-to-create-sensory-diet/

10. Flashback Coping Strategies - learning to recognize, name, and ground through flashbacks http://www.pete-walker.com/13StepsManageFlashbacks.htm

I added a link to each point in case any of these concepts are new to you things that you want to learn more about.

If you have complex PTSD, you are not alone. It gets better with time.

I don't think I'll ever stop having trauma symptoms, but my capacity to deal with them has changed radically in the last 5 years. The biggest thing that helped was adopting an attitude of No Shame about every single one of my symptoms.

Remember trauma symptoms do not mean we are broken. Our bodies responded in a perfectly reasonable way to overwhelming or unsafe circumstances. We are working WITH the body to heal our trauma, not against it.


🧠 Do you want to learn more about trauma & neurodiversity in an 8 week study group? Details here: https://traumageek.thinkific.com/courses/neurodiversity-and-trauma-study-group-3

05/12/2024

New Paper Alert: Understanding early maladaptive schemas in autistic and ADHD
individuals: exploring the impact, changing the narrative, and schema therapy considerations

At Yellow Ladybugs, we’re committed to sharing information that helps us create more inclusive, supportive, and affirming environments for our community. A recent autistic-led paper sheds light on the link between early life experiences and patterns of thinking that shape mental health outcomes for autistic and ADHD individuals.

The paper highlights that many autistic and ADHD people experience something called “early maladaptive schemas” (EMS). These are deeply ingrained patterns of thoughts, emotions, and ‘behaviours’ that often develop in response to unmet needs, rejection, isolation, or trauma during childhood.

In simple terms, schemas are like mental maps your brain creates based on past experiences to help you make sense of the world. They shape how you see yourself, others, and situations. Sometimes, these mental maps reflect the challenges of living in environments that don’t meet your needs, rather than who you are as a person. For example, if someone experiences a lot of rejection, they might develop a schema like “I don’t belong,” which can affect how they feel about themselves and interact with others, even if it’s not true.

Negative messages or experiences, whether direct or indirect, can lead to lifelong beliefs Eg feelings of unworthiness or feeling disconnected from others. Living in a world not built for our neurotype, or neuro-minority stress, further compounds these challenges.

The paper also emphasises:

- Understanding Matters: Challenges faced by autistic and ADHD individuals often stem from societal misunderstandings and unmet needs—not from who they are as people. By understanding this, we can shift from focusing on “fixing” individuals to meeting their needs and valuing their strengths.

- Schema Patterns Are Changeable: The research shows that with supportive environments and understanding, these patterns can shift, leading to improved self-esteem, mental health, and quality of life.

- Strength-Based Approaches Work: Using strategies that celebrate individual strengths, honour diversity, and create safe environments can significantly reduce the impact of these schemas.

Why Is This Important?

The paper offers practical lessons for all of us:

1. For Families and Caregivers: Creating environments where autistic and ADHD children feel safe, valued, and loved can help nurture positive self-beliefs and resilience. Building affirming environments can foster confidence and resilience, though systemic and societal factors also play a key role.

2. For Educators and Professionals: Trauma-informed and neurodiversity-affirming practices can help create spaces where neurodivergent individuals thrive. This includes understanding sensory and emotional differences and celebrating individuality.

3. For Autistic Individuals: It’s important to know that you are not alone. Many of us feel defined by past experiences or negative beliefs. With supportive environments and self-compassion, it is possible to rewrite these mental patterns and build a life of joy, connection, and self-acceptance.

This paper reminds us of the broader need for societal change. By reducing discrimination, improving accessibility, and shifting societal narratives about autism and ADHD, we can make big changes in the mental health for current and future generations.

Post inspired by:
- Spicer, L., DeCicco, E., Clarke, A., Ambrosius, R., & Yalcin, O. (2024). Understanding early maladaptive schemas in autistic and ADHD individuals: Exploring the impact, changing the narrative, and schema therapy considerations. Frontiers in Psychology, 15, 1436053. doi:10.3389/fpsyg.2024.1436053

Read the paper here: https://www.frontiersin.org/journals/psychology/articles/10.3389/fpsyg.2024.1436053/pdf

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05/12/2024

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