
08/09/2025
When 53 year old Theresa was diagnosed with terminal breast cancer in 2019, there was no one more important to her than her brother Travers and his partner of 20 years, James.
“They have been my rocks, and their love has been my foundation throughout life,” Theresa said.
Supported by the Spiritual Care team to help make meaning of her life and illness, Theresa recognised the grief she held at the prospect of not being able to see Travers and James get married.
“I love James like he is my own brother and I wanted to celebrate their love for each other and my love for them.”
Two days later, with the help of The Alfred community, Travers and James were joined by close family and friends as Theresa walked them down the aisle of the hospital’s Spirituality Centre.
“It was an amazing day - heartbreaking - but also full of joy,” Travers reflects.
Facilitating moments of connection is at the core of spiritual care in healthcare, says Spiritual Care Manager Reineke Ryan.
“People often wonder what spirituality is – it's what makes someone who they are and how they connect with the world around them."
“This will hopefully be a precious memory for the family to hold onto as they continue to reflect on life, and we’re pleased to stand beside them in part of that journey.”
Congratulations Travers and James.