02/02/2025
People are so entitled these days without realising.
Every week I deal with people, especially men who demand me to reply or if I don’t they get rude, short and cold if I don’t reply straight away. Some resorting to insults and misogyny.
Every year it’s been getting worse.
A small business, your friend or a disabled individual like me does not owe you a reply to your texts, emails or enquiries immediately.
We are humans, some of us have family, partners, kids, other work etc.
This sense of urgency culture is truly ruining relationships.
It’s why I think many end up single as they are so stuck in their head or their base chakra that they forget to be present, trust the process and learn to enjoy the moment with those they want to build a connection with.
How the f**k are you going to be successful in any relationship if you want to run away from your shadow and wounding and push away what you ACTUALLY desire to achieve or experience at every opportunity?
Or that you can’t stand silence because it just reflects a huge mirror to your own bu****it and unhealthy behaviours so you need to constantly mask and avoid?
I will always point out where you could improve in communication if you want to book in with me for an intimate session if I feel we aren’t a match, it’s rude to block someone though because you can’t deal with the truth.
I don’t see everyone, in fact I only see about 10% of people who book in for cuddling & devotional experiences as many are not able to hold safety enough for me to see them.
I value myself highly and respect myself, my energy and my worth which triggers the heck out of people for me just existing.
We don’t experience true safety often so when it presents itself many aren’t truly ready for the healing that safety would bring.
When you fear so much though you will only c**k block yourself from truly living in this human experience or even feeling truly loved.
So if you don’t think you’re worthy, wanted or loveable, here’s me telling you to shut that limited part of you the heck up because it’s time to believe that you are.
You don’t need to project your fears onto others any longer. You CAN be and are loved!!!
