19/09/2025
Notice if the things you want are coming from the need to experience a certain feeling...
The things we want, on their own aren’t a problem, it’s important to notice the ‘how’ in which we go about trying to get/achieve something and enquire to the ‘fuel source’ driving these things (eg. fear or love).
What we are thinking and believing about a situation determines how we suffer it...
What choices are you making that have fear behind them?
Do you believe you are somehow lacking without the thing you want?
What are you hoping/believing it will give you?
Is getting the thing connected to how you want other people to perceive you?
Is there one stress-free reason to keep the belief that “when I get x, then I will feel X”?
If anything comes up for you around this that you would like some support unpacking, please reach out 💌