Gilded Hearts Revolution

Gilded Hearts Revolution SparklyAF: The Gilded Heart Revolution redefines giving, leadership, and care. We turn sensitivity into strategy and generosity into sustainable power.

For helpers and leaders ready to build systems that let them rise without losing themselves. SparklyAF: The Gilded Heart Revolution is a global movement and book series redefining what it means to give, lead, and live without losing yourself. Built from lived experience, embodied research, and the SparklyAF: Gilded Heart Architecture™ framework, we turn exhaustion into data, sensitivity into strategy, and generosity into sustainable power. We’re here for the helpers, healers, leaders, and lovers who are done performing strength and ready to design systems that hold them too. This isn’t self-help. It’s system redesign. It’s the rise of the sparkly, sovereign, unextractable heart.

✨ Books | Training | Liberation in Practice

It’s Bi Visibility Day and we are a proud ally of the people who are.Because supporting people who are different from yo...
02/10/2025

It’s Bi Visibility Day and we are a proud ally of the people who are.

Because supporting people who are different from you? That’s not weakness. That’s intelligence. That’s compassion. That’s being human.

I don’t need to be bisexual to stand with the people who are. I don’t need to fully understand someone’s experience to know they deserve safety, visibility, and respect.

Being bi isn’t a phase. It isn’t confusion. It isn’t up for debate.

And before anyone rolls out their “freedom of speech” argument, let’s be clear:
Freedom of speech doesn’t include the freedom to vilify, erase, or dehumanise people for existing.

If your opinion harms someone else’s right to exist safely and truthfully, that’s not freedom. That’s oppression disguised as opinion.

And honestly? If you're obsessing over someone else’s love life, maybe ask yourself why. That’s just creepy, bruh.

To every bi+ person who’s ever been erased, sidelined, or questioned - we see you. You belong here.

We are so proud (and still a little in shock) to share that  Neurodivergent Empowered (Sparkly Aliens) has been named a ...
19/09/2025

We are so proud (and still a little in shock) to share that Neurodivergent Empowered (Sparkly Aliens) has been named a Podium Winner in three categories at the 22nd annual Stevie® Awards for Women in Business:

🏆 Achievement in Diversity & Inclusion
🏆 Organsation of the Year – Government or Non-Profit (10 or fewer employees)
🏆 Most Resilient Woman-Owned Business - ooomph my heart with this one

To accept our nominations, we had to lift the veil and share the full blueprint of what happens behind the scenes - the frameworks, the methodologies, the liberatory systems we’ve handcrafted and embedded into every inch of our work.

On the outside? It looks like fun.
That’s the whole point.

What we create is deliberately joyful. Playful. Safe.
But what’s beneath the surface is strategic, trauma-informed, identity-anchored, and powerful enough to rewire nervous systems and rebuild lives.

Whether Bronze, Silver or Gold (we find out Nov 10, held in New York), this recognition affirms that joy is valid. That play is powerful. That what looks like just “hanging out” is actually world-class, nervous system-informed, system-disrupting work.

While it's not safe for Kianni and me to travel to the US at the moment, our incredible publisher Karen Weaver from KMD Books will be in New York representing us with pride, sparkle, and fierce heart.

We’re here for the ones who’ve never seen themselves reflected.
We’re here to build systems that don’t demand performance to deserve support.
And we’re honoured to be seen for what we’ve known all along:

Neurodivergent-affirming therapeautic supports don't necessarily LOOK clinical. Sometimes it looks like a Dungeons & Dragons character who finally gets to be the hero. Sometimes it looks like a bubble gun. Or a weighted blanket. Or a sensory-aware co-regulated space where someone is finally, finally seen.

Because this is proof that:

✨ Small teams can build big systems.

✨ Joy can be therapeutic.

✨ And lived experience can change the world - when it’s trusted.

Thank you to our community. Thank you to every family, every team member, every person who’s trusted us to walk beside them. This is your award too.

Crowns On. Hearts Open. SparklyAF.













Happy Birthday Amy from Banksia Support Services !You are truly one of the most beautiful, kind-hearted humans I’ve ever...
19/09/2025

Happy Birthday Amy from Banksia Support Services !

You are truly one of the most beautiful, kind-hearted humans I’ve ever had the privilege of knowing. The way you move through the world with gentleness, purpose, and unwavering care is something I deeply admire.

I feel incredibly lucky to call you a friend.

As a fellow NeuroSparkly woman, you show the world what’s possible when integrity, compassion, and courage come together. Your presence reminds me that leadership doesn’t have to be loud to be powerful. It can be grounded, generous, and quietly world-shifting.

Thank you for your tireless effort, your radiant spirit, and your heart that holds space for so many.

May this next year reflect everything you give: warmth, wisdom, wonder, and the joy of being celebrated exactly as you are.

With so much love,
Tan xx

Okay but what if safety could actually be FUN?🎤 I’ll be speaking at Breaking Down Barriers, hosted by the Lavender Sky F...
19/09/2025

Okay but what if safety could actually be FUN?

🎤 I’ll be speaking at Breaking Down Barriers, hosted by the Lavender Sky Foundation, with a talk that’s close to the bone:

Unfolding Wings: From 47 Years of Hiding to Building Spaces Where Nobody Has To.

This one’s not about theory.
It’s about real, lived, gritty, practical inclusion.
The kind that doesn’t wait for systems to catch up.
The kind that says you belong - without needing to perform, translate, or brace.

🧠 Mental health support that feels like permission
🫶 Trauma tools that don’t retraumatise
💬 Communication that doesn’t demand code-switching
💥 Strategies that actually change the room

📅 September 19, 2025
📍 The Wharf, Mooloolaba
⏰ 9:30AM–1:00PM

Whether you’re a carer, a teacher, a professional, a parent, or a powerhouse in your own messy, brilliant life, this event will change the way you understand safety, identity, and inclusion.

So get your b***y there!

Beyond Best Practice: Empowered Conversations on Mental HealthFeaturing Occupational Therapist Robbie ElletJoin us for a...
11/09/2025

Beyond Best Practice: Empowered Conversations on Mental Health
Featuring Occupational Therapist Robbie Ellet

Join us for an evening that goes beyond the checklist and into the heart of what truly supports neurodivergent teens and young adults.

As part of our Beyond Best Practice speaker series, this session features Robbie Ellet, a Mental Health OT with over 15 years of clinical experience — and the kind of lived wisdom that only comes from walking the path yourself.

This isn’t just another event.
It’s a space for real talk, real tools, and radical reimagining — where support meets sovereignty.

What You’ll Experience:

A short, high-impact talk on mental health through an OT lens

Practical, occupation-based strategies grounded in identity, regulation, and real-world support

Connection and conversation in a trauma-informed, neuro-affirming space

Whether you’re a parent, educator, therapist, or ally —
this is the conversation we’ve been waiting to have.

🎟️ Tickets: $25
📍Strictly limited numbers to preserve the intimate, conversational feel.

Reserve your spot here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/supporting-adolescent-mental-health-an-ots-take-with-robbie-ellet-tickets-1666943215029?aff=oddtdtcreator

Light refreshments provided.

Part of the Sparkly Aliens Collective
Crowns On. Hearts Open. SparklyAF.

If you’d like to be featured in the Beyond Best Practice speaker series, you can find more information and submit your expression of interest here: https://simplebooklet.com/officialinvitationtovipcollaboration










Righto... let's go there with a trigger warning straight up that this may ruffle some feathers. Because “everyone’s enti...
09/09/2025

Righto... let's go there with a trigger warning straight up that this may ruffle some feathers.

Because “everyone’s entitled to their opinion” ends here.

In our spaces, we welcome passionate conversation.
We invite disagreement.
We scaffold differing truths.
We don’t expect regulation perfection — we expect intensity.

But here’s the line:
Your opinion can be strong.
It just can’t be harmful.

You can say: “This topic is hard for me.”
🚫 You can’t say: “That identity is wrong.”

You can say: “That was my lived experience.”
🚫 You can’t erase someone else’s.

You can say: “I don’t know if I agree.”
🚫 You can’t dominate the space so others can’t speak.

How We Hold Space for Big Conversations:

✔️ We allow pauses: mid-sentence, mid-topic, mid-meltdown. No shame. No rush.
✔️ We make space for non-verbal participation: typing, writing, emoji reactions, post-convo follow-ups.
✔️ We honour processing time. Responses aren’t demanded.
✔️ We gently redistribute airtime when one voice takes over: not to silence, but to protect connection.
✔️ We’re okay with disagreement.
🚫 We are not okay with harm.
✔️ If the group becomes dysregulated, we pause. Not to shut down the conversation , but to protect the nervous systems in the room.

This is structure that holds, not suffocates.

Because SparklyAF communication isn’t performative.
It’s protective. It’s principled. And it’s powerful.

Crowns On. Hearts Open. SparklyAF. This is how we live now.

















Little Brains. Big Feelings. Massive Wisdom: inspired by Sprinkle  in our first segment of "Sprinkle It On"! 🎉We are OBS...
04/09/2025

Little Brains. Big Feelings. Massive Wisdom: inspired by Sprinkle in our first segment of "Sprinkle It On"! 🎉

We are OBSESSED with these image tiles, because not only do they explain early learning brain development in a way that actually makes sense… they were inspired by none other than Sprinkle, one of our youngest team members, most beloved humans, and a future leader of our Community!

It’s not “naughty” — it’s a stress response.
You can’t logic them out of a meltdown — but you can help them feel safe.
Connection first. Thinking comes later.

Show her some love in the comments below!
We’re so proud. We’re so moved.
We’re so freaking lucky to have her at The Nest.

Crowns On. Hearts Open. SparklyAF.

🎉 Happy Birthday (for yesterday but we celebrated today), Taija! 🎉We all absolutely adore you, not just for the brillian...
04/09/2025

🎉 Happy Birthday (for yesterday but we celebrated today), Taija! 🎉

We all absolutely adore you, not just for the brilliance you bring, but for the way you hold, support, and elevate the team.

Everything runs smoother because of your scaffolding, the kind that holds people up while helping them rise. Your knowledge, clarity, and calm make an impact every single day.

We’re so glad you got to sneak away for part of your birthday, and even more grateful that you choose to be part of us.

Thank you for being pure gold. Special note from Tan - thank you for being in the vision as much as me. You don't know how much capacity that creates for me. I appreciate you xx

From all of us at Neurodivergent Empowered and the Sparkly Aliens Collective!

Crowns On. Hearts Open. SparklyAF.








01/09/2025

🫶 This Is Why We Are Continually Uplevelling What We Offer 🫶

This feedback from a parent in our Saturday Teens Group means the world to us, not just because it’s kind, but because it reflects exactly what we’ve been building behind the scenes:

Over the past year+, we’ve evolved from a support work model into something deeper: therapy-informed, trauma-aware, and co-regulation-led.
Every team member has undertaken extensive training to step into this next level of work: as therapy assistants, as lived-experience-informed facilitators, and where qualified, as therapists.

Thank you for trusting me on this journey of up-skilling and expansion, team. You are all heart-led legends.

And when we hear that the difference is felt — in the way we greet young people as individuals, in the way connection is intentionally built, in the way sessions shift to reflect who walks in that day — we know it’s landing where it matters most.

This isn’t just a group of participants hanging out.
This is attachment-safe, neurodivergent-affirming group therapy... but fun!!!
This is space for real connection, real safety, and real growth.

So let me take a moment to say this to our team:

I know I stretch you.
I know I keep asking us to go higher — NDIS certification, up-skilling expectations, facilitator development, expansion of cohorts, ongoing qualifications... the list is long.

But this feedback?
This is someone else seeing what I’ve always seen in you.

🥲🥲🥲🥲

You make me so proud to be building this with you.
This is what happens when heart-led humans rise together.

- Love Tan x 👑🤍✨

Crowns On. Hearts Open. SparklyAF.












Welcome to the first episode of Cat-alyst!Where psychology meets play, nervous system science meets sparkle, and we deco...
01/09/2025

Welcome to the first episode of Cat-alyst!

Where psychology meets play, nervous system science meets sparkle, and we decode what actually works — especially for neurodivergent kids.

Let’s talk about big feelings, tiny bodies, and the real tools that help.

When a child is overwhelmed, it’s not a behaviour issue.
It’s a nervous system responding to threat — and sometimes the threat is a classroom, a demand, or a world that wasn’t built for them.

Their logic brain goes offline. Their body takes over.
That’s why in our sessions, we don’t start with words.
We start with movement and breath — because those are the fastest ways back to safety.

💡 Science says:
- Crossing the midline (like yoga, crawling, or rolling) builds communication between the two sides of the brain. This supports focus, coordination, and emotional regulation.

- A coordinated movement study showed a 117% increase in literacy scores and major improvements in behaviour.

- In Sweden, researchers found that just one hour of extra physical activity per day at age 11 led to 35% less depression and 12% fewer psychiatric diagnoses by age 18.

Breath is a built-in superpower: Breathing isn’t just calming. It’s neurological first aid.

💡 Science says:

- Slow, rhythmic breathing activates the vagus nerve, helping the body shift into rest-and-restore mode.

- Daily breathwork improves emotional control and lowers anxiety in children, especially when done in playful, familiar ways.

That’s why we blow bubbles.
Do “dragon breaths.”
Smell imaginary flowers.
It’s not fluff. It’s regulation training in disguise.

Co-regulation comes first:

💡 Science says:

- Children’s nervous systems co-regulate with the adults around them.
- Labeling emotions and staying connected is more effective than logic or discipline in the heat of the moment.

So in our sessions, you’ll hear:

“Let’s breathe together.”
“That was a big moment. I’ve got you.”
“It’s okay to feel what you feel.”

Because the goal isn’t control. It’s connection.
And from there, kids learn that big feelings don’t have to be scary. They’re just signals. And they pass.

The most powerful intervention we have is still a calm, safe adult. We meet kids where they’re at — and offer the tools to feel it all, safely and skillfully.

Looking for more resources or professional development?Explore tools, trainings, and real-world regulation strategies at:

👉 mindbubbles.com.au
👉 sparklyaliens.com

Crowns On. Hearts Open. SparklyAF.

🌈 Shared in collaboration — original learning points by Cat, reframed through our two wings: HEART & EMPOWER.










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