Peace + Presence with Melina

Peace + Presence with Melina Relaxation tools for women who feel too much + can't turn their minds off
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My name is Melina and I am a Heart Based Mindfulness, Meditation and Yoga Teacher. I was initially drawn to yoga and mindfulness for its ability to connect body, mind and spirit and was soon addicted to the soothing qualities of the practices. Using conscious breath, feel good gentle yoga and peaceful mindfulness practices, I bring a gentle, calming and soothing energy to her classes. My mission i

s to create a space of stillness, peace and spaciousness for people to connect back to their heart. I have a soft, feminine presence that will leave you feeling nurtured, calm and grounded. I believe mindfulness, meditation and yoga is for absolutely everyone and am passionate about sharing this with the world.

When the old form no longer holds you,you are not lost.You are returning.In the space between who you wereand who you ar...
15/04/2026

When the old form no longer holds you,
you are not lost.
You are returning.

In the space between who you were
and who you are becoming,
God is working.

Your discomfort is not disorder.
It is the universe
rearranging itself through you.

When nothing makes sense,
you are closest to truth.

The caterpillar does not choose the chrysalis.
The chrysalis chooses the caterpillar.

Stop trying to understand
what is beyond understanding.

In dissolution,
you find what was never born
and can never die.

Let yourself dissolve.

My meditations often feel like a complete frustrating mess…the life of a gal with a very busy mind. 🤯Most people think m...
10/04/2026

My meditations often feel like a complete frustrating mess…the life of a gal with a very busy mind. 🤯

Most people think meditation is about feeling relaxed and peaceful every time. But if that’s what you’re expecting, you’re going to be disappointed every time.

I’m going to get all “spiritual girlie” on you…that’s relaxation, not meditation (which is still bloody good because who doesn’t want to relax).

Meditation is about complete acceptance of yourself exactly as you are in that moment…the messy thoughts, the anxiety, the restlessness…ALL OF IT.

Trying to change yourself without loving acceptance doesn’t work, you can’t resist who you truly are it will keep following you around until you say "oh hi you".

Lasting transformation happens when we honour ourselves in our wholeness…what we call “good” and what we call “bad.”

I love this quote: “If you love a rose, you have to love the thorns too.” 🌹🩸

When you close your eyes and sit, you develop loyalty to yourself…I mean really who else but you can be the most loyal of them all? You keep your promise that your inner world deserves the same care you give everyone else every single day.

My meditations lately have been putting on a timer for 20 minutes and letting my mind go completely crazy. I don’t try to focus on my breath or quiet anything, I just let the washing machine of my mind have the stage.

It’s not relaxing at all, it can feel chaotic, boring, un-peaceful.

BUT…when I open my eyes, there’s this glimpse of peace that washes over me (you know that feeling when a friend has listened to all your worries). You’ve been seen and heard by yourself. You witnessed what was passing through.

Even if those spaces of stillness are just one or two minutes, don't discount their value. Short-term dopamine hits won't cut it anymore...it's the consistent devotion that rebuilds your nervous system.

This is exactly why I created the Mini Reset: Three guided meditations that meet you wherever you are. Think of them as training wheels for building your own unguided practice. No pressure to "achieve" anything, just space to witness what's here.

Mind, body, soul. $29 🌙
https://peace.melinademertzis.com.au/the-mini-reset/

Right now, in this exact moment, you're not your racing thoughts about tomorrow's worries or yesterday's triggering conv...
30/03/2026

Right now, in this exact moment, you're not your racing thoughts about tomorrow's worries or yesterday's triggering conversation. You're not the anxiety spiraling about things you can't control right now. You're not the overwhelm from your endless to-do list and being pulled in every direction.

You're the one watching it all.

That part of you that can step back and observe your own mind spinning?

That's who you really are, the witness, the awareness and the unshakeable presence that remains calm even when everything else feels like a big hot mess.

Your thoughts will come and go like clouds in the sky and your emotions will forever rise and fall like waves in the ocean.

But you...the real YOU...the one that you feel in that space in between...that YOU will always remain constant, unchanging and at pure peace.

This isn't something you have to achieve or earn through years of meditation and it certainly isn't a spiritual level you need to reach.

It's what you are right now, in this moment, reading these words.

The storm might be raging around you, but you are not the storm.

You are the sky that holds it all.

Drop a 🌙 if you felt this in your bones.

Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is trust what doesn't make logical sense.I'm learning more and more in my ...
17/03/2026

Sometimes the most spiritual thing you can do is trust what doesn't make logical sense.

I'm learning more and more in my energy work about resonance and what it actually means and how it manifests in the 3D.

And it's completely different from what Instagram tells you about "alignment."

Everyone says: "Just get into alignment with what you want."

But what if what you want or “the thing” isn't actually in resonance with you, your energy or your path right now?

Here's the difference that changes everything ↓

ALIGNMENT assumes the goal is right, you just need to match its frequency.

RESONANCE asks is this frequency compatible with mine at this moment?

Resonance = Vibration × Frequency × Energy.

All three have to match for something to be a true energetic fit.

And here's the thing that blew my mind:

Even if you're the most “high vibe” person ever, something amazing might still not be in resonance with you. Even if it looks profitable and abundant and perfect on paper.

The alignment advice made them think THEY were the problem.
Not worthy enough perhaps, not vibrating high enough, not healed enough.

Here's what most people miss:

Sometimes the most amazing opportunities aren't in resonance with us yet.

Not because we're doing it wrong...because divine timing has a different plan for us.

We're told to work on our fears and beliefs to create the alignment, and yes, sometimes that's 100% true and necessary and super effective!

But sometimes what we THINK we desire isn't actually what our deeper self is calling in. Sometimes the Divine wants to surprise us with something that fits us even better.

I've seen people force their way into "dream" situations only to discover the timing wasn't right, the energetic fit wasn't actually there. Sure, the thing happened and it was...fine. But not that deep satisfaction we're all chasing.

Like our minds just want the thing, even when our deeper system knows it's not ours.

The most incredible thing you want might not be ready for you yet. Forcing alignment often blocks you from what's truly resonant right now.

When we are in resonance with our environment, spaces, people, business, opportunities...then we are on the path of the divine.
That’s not to say that everything will be sunshine and rainbows or even easier...but its an energetic “fit” we know the divine wants for us.

What if instead of working harder to align with external goals, we started trusting what feels naturally resonant instead?

What if that thing you thought you wanted, the business, the relationship, the house, the opportunity...isn't actually meant for you...but something EVEN better is?

What if we got curious about what wants to come through us, rather than forcing what we think should?

The thing that feels naturally resonant might look completely different from what you planned. It might surprise you. It might not make logical sense at first.

But your system recognises it immediately.

There's an ease, a rightness, a "yes" that doesn't need convincing (and yes it can still scare the pants of you and yes it can still require action and effort).

Perhaps it's just a change of language for us all...resonance feels softer and yummier to me than alignment, don't you think!?

I was 14, gripping my desk to stop myself from throwing up as period cramps tore through me in English class, when I lea...
25/02/2026

I was 14, gripping my desk to stop myself from throwing up as period cramps tore through me in English class, when I learned the most toxic lesson about being a woman:

your body can be in agony, but the day still expects you to show up.

I remember trying to focus while my body was doing something enormous and private underneath a school uniform. Nobody was cruel about it; life just didn't pause. You realized quickly you could be hurting and still required to function, and after a while you stopped questioning it.

That training stays with you.

Later it looks like going to work sick, caring for others when you're depleted, managing everyone's needs while your body screams for rest.

This pattern of override and endurance became my normal…until burnout forced me to stop. That's when I discovered the very stillness I'd been avoiding was exactly what I needed.

So…I always find it interesting when women say meditation feels uncomfortable.

Women already live inside fluctuating bodies, moods and responsibilities that don't stop. We keep loving people while tired, keep making decisions while overwhelmed, keep holding things together while our internal weather keeps changing.

The stillness is what feels confronting.

When you sit and stop moving, there's nothing to fix or tend to and your attention finally turns toward yourself. Thoughts you've outrun come closer. Feelings you postponed surface. You notice how tired you actually are.

It isn't weakness that makes women avoid meditation.

It's familiarity with pushing through.

For many of us, movement has always been the way we cope.

Sitting quietly means meeting ourselves without a role, without helping, without performing strength.

And yet after a while something softens. The mind slows, the body unclenches, and underneath the managing and holding everything together, you can feel your own life again.

Meditation isn't adding another hard thing.

It's the place you stop carrying it alone.

And you can't start right here...grab my free meditation bundle that helps you meet yourself with gentleness:

https://peace.melinademertzis.com.au/the-body-bundle/

This morning on my walk, when the rising sun glinted in my eyes and I felt that space in between long enough, this truth...
18/02/2026

This morning on my walk, when the rising sun glinted in my eyes and I felt that space in between long enough, this truth landed so clearly:

"Stop fighting against a world that just wants to love you."

When I heard it, something inside me cracked open. Tears welled up, and I felt a release…a knowing that this was exactly what my heart needed to hear.

The "fight" doesn't always look like fists up, sometimes it's lurking behind old ways of being:

✨ Focusing on what could go wrong instead of what's already going right
✨ Downplaying wins, convincing yourself it was just luck or won't last
✨ Ignoring your body's signals to rest because productivity equals worth
✨ Overworking because rest feels uncomfortable
✨ Scrolling social media convincing yourself everyone else has it better
✨ Building walls around your heart, thinking you're protecting yourself but really keeping love out

These little fights feel so normal, so automatic, we don't notice them. But they add up. They close us off from the love and joy already here, waiting for us to let it in.

In that moment, I was being invited to trust the world a little more, to trust love a little more and myself. Not because the world is perfect, but because love shows up anyway… in small, quiet ways we often overlook.

So, I'm asking myself, and maybe you too:

✨ Where have I been fighting?
✨ What would it feel like to let love in?

If you've been pushing away love, this feels like an invitation to trust again..to let go of the fight..to take a breath and let love reach you.

Sometimes we're so focused on the cracks that we miss the light pouring through them. What if the broken places aren't what's wrong with us…but what's right? What if they're the spaces where our humanity meets divine love? What if healing isn't about becoming perfect, but about letting light into the places we've been hiding?

If this resonates, I'd love to know…where have you been fighting?

Comment below, sometimes sharing it helps us see it clearly. 💛

You quit meditating because the voice in your head wouldn't shut up.And you thought what's the point of this?But what if...
17/02/2026

You quit meditating because the voice in your head wouldn't shut up.

And you thought what's the point of this?

But what if I told you that was the most honest moment you'd had all day?

Don't worry, I quit too… multiple times actually. I'd have these amazing honeymoon moments while life was easy and I had more time in my schedule...sitting there feeling like a spiritual girlie.

Then reality would hit. Life got busy, emotions kicked in, hormones shifted, stress crept up, and I'd close my eyes and everything got LOUDER. Every worry, every random thought, memories from years ago would resurface.

Even though I'm in the industry and "know better," I thought I was failing at being a meditator.

Turns out, I was approaching it completely wrong.

Here's what no one tells you about meditation (because it's not very marketable):

You're not supposed to achieve a quiet mind. You're supposed to become the CEO of your mind instead of its victim.

Most people meditate with "reward eyes"...expecting instant calm, mental silence. When that doesn't happen, they quit.

But meditation is about building "resilience eyes." The capacity to be present with whatever mind you have today...stormy, scattered, or surprisingly still. When you can sit with racing thoughts for 5 minutes, you're training yourself to sit with difficult emotions, challenging conversations, and uncertain outcomes.

Now when stress hits, I don't spiral “as much as I used to” into worst-case scenarios or get stuck in mental loops. I address things head-on instead of avoiding or overthinking them to death.

When you've built that resilience muscle, you handle everything with different energy.

The noise in your head during meditation? That's not you doing it wrong. That's you finally paying attention to what's been happening up there all day.

Ready to become the CEO of your mind instead of its victim?

Grab The Body Bundle...my FREE meditation collection that actually works when your brain won't cooperate:

https://peace.melinademertzis.com.au/the-body-bundle/

When did taking care of yourself become another way to fail at being human?You know this feeling, don't you?When the thi...
10/02/2026

When did taking care of yourself become another way to fail at being human?

You know this feeling, don't you?

When the things that are supposed to help you become another shame stick to beat yourself with and the thing that brings balanced is now making you feel very unbalanced.

Like exercise…you started because it made you feel good.
But now even when you're absolutely drained and tired, you drag and push yourself at that same intensity because "if I stop, I'll lose everything."

And Instagram has you convinced you're basically a failure if you don't hit your 10,000 steps a day.

Or food…you cleaned up your diet and felt amazing.
Then suddenly you can't want to eat a whole box of loco love without full internal drama about "staying committed to low sugar."

Every craving becomes evidence that you're weak instead of...maybe just wanting to eat some damn good chocolate because it provides you some pleasure (pleasure is good).

Meditation might be the worst one…

Because it literally saved you from drowning in overwhelm every day. But now the fear kicks in - "I MUST meditate 20 minutes daily or I'll go back to being a mess."

Miss one day and suddenly you're not "committed to your healing."
Can you see what happened?

Managing yourself = following the rules, checking boxes, following your to do list and feeling like s**t when you don't measure up.

Caring for yourself = "I'm tired today, rest counts too." "I want chocolate today, maybe that's okay." "I feel quiet today, maybe that's what I need."

These are just some very general examples but here’s what’s true…
These practices are needed and wonderful...I'm not suggesting you throw them all out the window. But here's what's also true: a few days off to listen to your body's actual rhythm won't destroy all the goodwill you've created.

It won't make you "undisciplined" (we are not men, after all) and it won't make you flaky."

Sometimes caring for yourself means not doing the "healthy" thing and it means not forcing your wellness to do list.

All those practices have built goodwill in your body...which means you can actually stop and listen. You can hear what you need right now with kindness and care. And you know what you need better than any wellness guru or Instagram algorithm.

Your humanity isn't a problem to solve and your need for rest or quiet or even wanting chocolate isn't evidence you're failing at life.

What if it was as simple as:

"What do I actually need right now?"

And then trusting that answer without the added shame spiral.

Hi...if we haven't met I'm Melina I help women clear the density...whether it's in your space or in your system...so you can feel like yourself again...if you hang with me long enough I will convince you that you haven't lost yourself, you're just buried under density that isn't yours.

I’ve been thinking a lot about the way we talk to our bodies, and how those words shape the ecosystem inside us.For a lo...
22/01/2026

I’ve been thinking a lot about the way we talk to our bodies, and how those words shape the ecosystem inside us.

For a long time, I spoke to my body in a tone I would never have used with someone I loved. I criticised her, pushed her, treated her like a problem. I genuinely believed that a bit of harshness would somehow make me better, more disciplined, more in control.

It’s no surprise what it created instead was a constant low-grade stress in my body and a deep sense of disconnection from myself.

It took me years to realise that those unkind thoughts weren’t just thoughts, they landed somewhere…this body keeps score and they showed up as pushed-down stress, as inflammation, as parts of me hiding in plain sight.

Midlife has been giving me a radically kind awakening. You’d think it would feel harder because the body is changing with age, but the voice inside me has been getting so much kinder and understanding...she feels so grown up where the narrative changes from it’s not so much “how do I look?” anymore, but “how do I want to feel in this body of mine?”

And that question changed the way I lived in my body.

Real change didn’t come from discipline or rigid plans (let’s leave that one to the men perhaps) …it came from small, almost invisible acts of kindness. Noticing the words I used. Softening my eyes and my tone, placing a hand on my body instead of scowling at it. Thanking her for carrying me through my life and simply being alive.

My meditation practice was the turning point to this, my practice of staying and, learning how to sit inside my own body without fixing anything and accepting her just as she is.

Underneath all the stories about how we look, what we’ve achieved, and whether we’re doing life “right”, there is the capital T truth of you waiting to be heard…just give yourself some space to listen.

If this is speaking to you, you might love The Body Bundle.

It’s a gentle, guided experience to help you soften your relationship with your body, clear what you’ve been carrying, and learn how to live inside yourself with more kindness and ease.

Begin Your Body Devotion right here:
https://peace.melinademertzis.com.au/the-body-bundle/

A lot of the women I know, and a lot of the women I talk to, already know what would support their stress levels.They al...
20/01/2026

A lot of the women I know, and a lot of the women I talk to, already know what would support their stress levels.

They already know about meditation, mindfulness, creating space. They already know the things that add to their tension too, like endlessly scrolling, choosing the phone instead of stepping outside, or pushing themselves to get more done so they can finally feel better.

And I really don’t think they’re not doing these things because they’re lazy or undisciplined. I think they’re not doing them because they’re already so overwhelmed with life that adding more to do just feels like a burden.

We’re living in a world that floods us with noise and urgency from the moment our eyes open., the world seems to meet us before we’ve even met ourselves.

So of course slowing down feels super hard, of course meditation feels the opposite of what you think you would like it to feel, of course putting the phone down doesn’t feel calming straight away.

When you’ve been living in a constant state of “doing” and never turning off…stillness can feel pretty bloody uncomfortable and your mind will convince you in all the ways you can be doing something better with your time.

What I see again and again is that it actually takes a lot of radical honesty to notice this in yourself and then devoted discipline to begin changing it. To choose each day to sit for a few minutes, to breathe, to step outside and not because it’s instantly blissful, but because you’re starting to care about how you’re living inside your own body.

And then, slowly, something shifts.

In small choices that lean you back toward yourself. A little more softness in your body. A pause before reaching for your phone. A moment where you choose something that actually restores you.

Over time, those choices shape something much deeper than just how you feel today.

You’re not just trying to get through this week.

You’re building a steadiness in your body that you’ll still be grateful for years from now.

That’s usually where the most meaningful (lasting) kind of change begins.

➡️➡️➡️ Tag and Share this with someone who’s been running on empty for too long 🤍

Hey all my Peri-menopausal girlies, have you noticed this too?When you’re scrolling Instagram and the algorithm seems ve...
16/01/2026

Hey all my Peri-menopausal girlies, have you noticed this too?

When you’re scrolling Instagram and the algorithm seems very convinced that everything you’re experiencing is hormonal. Every reel explains why you’re tired, why your mood feels different, why your body isn’t responding the way it used to, and then offers a way to fix it (yay 😵‍💫). Eat more protein, eat more fibre, take this supplement, actually no take that one instead, eat more fat girl, go keto, no carbs… GAHHH 🤯

I kinda feel mildly traumatised by not knowing whether I eat enough protein and fibre at this point 😅

It’s a very coercive narrative. Helpful at times, but for me it was also a little indulgent to blame my hormones because I’m 47 why wouldn’t that be the reason… can it be the whole reason? 🤓

What I wasn’t really looking at was stress. If you’d asked me, I would’ve said no, my life isn’t stressful, it’s calm and peaceful. But I’m a sensitive girlie and I tend to embody a lot… other people’s stuff, environments, the collective. Years of being switched on and holding things together had quietly become my normal.

Because it felt too hard for my already overwhelmed system, I kept trying to fix the top layer through food, supplements and routines (somewhat helpful), but mostly it just created more disappointment. Even knowing what I know about meditation and mindfulness, I wasn’t fully noticing the state my body was actually living in.

Things started to shift when I stopped chasing immediate change and focused instead on creating daily, consistent spaciousness and stillness. Not hours of it, just about twenty minutes a day. Enough room for my body to off-gas what it had been holding and for my mind to process things it never had space for.

Heading into these mid life years feel like a long-term relationship with choosing yourself, a devotion really. The old ways don’t feel nourishing anymore, so something has to change.

These are the gentle, soft, subtle ways I’m supporting my energy in 2026. I’ve put together a cute little guide with practices and people I’ve found helpful.

Click here its yours: https://bit.ly/gentle-glow-up-sensitive-woman

One thing I’ve noticed again and again (and for myself in the past too) is that people don’t stop meditating because it ...
08/01/2026

One thing I’ve noticed again and again (and for myself in the past too) is that people don’t stop meditating because it doesn’t help.

They stop because it quietly becomes another thing they’re trying to hold on their own.

Choosing what to listen to, deciding how long to sit, wondering if they’re doing enough. Trying to stay consistent through tiredness, hormones, busy seasons, loud days, and the sheer mental load of being human.

It’s not a lack of desire…it’s exhaustion.

For some people, a few simple practices they return to now and then are enough. They reach for them when things feel heavy, settle themselves, and move on. That rhythm works, and there’s nothing wrong with it.

For others, what they’re really longing for is something steadier. A companion, a rhythm a companion they don’t have to keep recreating from scratch. A place they can arrive at without thinking so much.

And here’s why that steadiness matters.

Meditation doesn’t tend to change life through big moments of calm, it changes things through repetition. Through the body learning, over time, that there is a place it can return to. That it doesn’t always have to stay braced, that it’s allowed to soften.

When that happens, the shifts usually show up in ordinary, physical ways.

You might notice you pause before reacting, that your shoulders don’t stay tense all day, that you sleep a little more deeply, that you don’t spiral as far when something goes wrong. That you recover faster after emotional days instead of carrying everything forward.

These aren’t big changes, but they’re real. And they only really land when the practice becomes familiar enough for the nervous system to trust it.

This is where consistency becomes less about discipline and more about support. Not forcing yourself to show up, but having something that makes showing up easier.

Something that meets you on the days you feel steady and the days you don’t.

That’s why some people find that having a regular, gentle container makes all the difference. Not because it’s “better,” but because it removes friction, less deciding, less starting over and more returning.

This is the space The Body Bundle was created for: A free bundle of three guided meditations to support consistency without pressure.

💛 You can grab it right here: https://peace.melinademertzis.com.au/the-body-bundle/

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