30/08/2023
Strategies of emotion regulation.:
Technique: Seeing that our emotions are temporary.
One of the fears that people have is that their painful emotions are unending and will pervade their entire day. This then makes them want to get rid of the emotion, which usually results in greater frustration, anxiety, and intolerance of emotion.
By using the technique of finding that emotions are temporary, a person may be guided in taking a mindful observing stance toward
their emotion and recording the different emotions and their intensity during the course of the day. This allows them to see that a full range of positive, negative, and neutral emotions occur and that emotions are like worries: They change and dissipate.
Question: Are there specific things that you are doing or thinking that are related to your feelings fluctuating?
Some may believe that claiming emotions are temporary minimizes the pain that they experience and invalidates their emotional suffering. The emphasis here is the interaction between change and validation, between actively moving forward while validating what has happened in the past.
Reference
Emotional Regulation in Psychotherapy:A Practitioner’s Guide
Robert L. Leahy, Dennis Tirch, and Lisa A. Napolitano.