11/12/2025
As we approach the holiday season, a time many associate with joy, connection, and tradition, it’s important to remember that for some families, “celebration” doesn’t always feel that way. For many Autistic and neurodivergent individuals, the bustle, surprises, sensory input and social expectations can create real stress.
That’s why I wanted to highlight this thoughtful guide from Reframing Autism: “Our Top 5 Tips for Creating a Neuro-affirming Family Celebration.”
Their five simple, yet powerful suggestions to help make celebrations inclusive and affirming:
🌿 Build new traditions that work for everyone, rather than relying on conventional rituals that might be overwhelming.
🌿 Make those traditions equitable: allow each person to celebrate in a way that suits them — for example, giving someone the option to open gifts privately instead of in a group.
🌿 Establish and respect boundaries — e.g. avoid forced hugs or kisses, provide a quiet space to decompress, and communicate gratitude in ways that don’t rely on physical contact.
🌿 Ask “What do you need?” Listen to your loved ones: maybe they’d prefer familiar foods, less social interaction or more downtime.
🌿 And above all — practise patience. If someone becomes overwhelmed, what they need most is empathy, reassurance and understanding. Reframing Autism
In doing so, we’re not just “adjusting” — we’re creating celebrations that honour neurodiversity, dignity and belonging.
If you lead, support or care for neurodivergent colleagues, friends or family — or simply want to make your holiday gatherings more inclusive — I encourage you to check out Reframing Autism’s full article (link in comments) and reflect on how you can make this year’s celebrations more thoughtful, affirming and joyful for everyone.