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As a psychotherapist, I broke down the Taylor Swift-Blake Lively texts for body+soul.com.au, revealing what they got rig...
26/01/2026

As a psychotherapist, I broke down the Taylor Swift-Blake Lively texts for body+soul.com.au, revealing what they got right (vulnerable check-ins!), what could’ve been better (earlier reciprocity), and lessons for us all.

Conflict avoidant? Their bold honesty shows that naming the “shift” with empathy builds bridges, not walls. Try it next time things feel off.

How do you handle it when things come up with friends? Comment below!

Love, Jen

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This has been a habit of mine for years. I often forget my glasses, water, sunscreen or even my phone and have to run ba...
20/01/2026

This has been a habit of mine for years. I often forget my glasses, water, sunscreen or even my phone and have to run back to get something. If I have given myself some extra time, I don't have to stress; I can go back and get things, knowing I have plenty of time.

Game changer.

Thank you

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Walking helps your brain process emotions. Each step, each soft movement of your eyes right, left, right, activates both...
19/01/2026

Walking helps your brain process emotions. Each step, each soft movement of your eyes right, left, right, activates both sides of your brain. This connects how you think with how you feel, helping everything make a little more sense.

When we sit still, the brain’s threat centre stays loud. Walking helps quiet it down. It turns tension into rhythm and brings your body back into a state of safety.

If you’re having a hard conversation, try walking while you talk. You’ll both stay more balanced and open. Compassion comes easier when your nervous system feels safe.

Afterwards, pause and notice how much calmer you feel.

Your body knows what to do. Just walk.

Love, Jen

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Advice has its place, but so does quiet understanding. Not every pain needs a solution; sometimes it just needs to be wi...
17/01/2026

Advice has its place, but so does quiet understanding. Not every pain needs a solution; sometimes it just needs to be witnessed. When we listen without judgment and imagine what it might be like for the other person,, we make room for real healing. đŸŒ±

Listen well, Love Jen

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The avoidant part is often misunderstood and judged.It’s labelled ‘cold’, ‘distant’, or ‘emotionally unavailable’. But f...
10/01/2026

The avoidant part is often misunderstood and judged.

It’s labelled ‘cold’, ‘distant’, or ‘emotionally unavailable’. But from a parts-work lens, it’s a protector that learned early: needing others wasn’t safe.

This part formed in environments where closeness came with disappointment, overwhelm, or intrusion. So it adapted by creating distance, autonomy, and self-reliance.

Healing doesn’t come from pushing this part to open. It comes from respecting its boundaries and deeply listening to it.

When you stay steady without demanding closeness, when you offer connection without pressure, this part often begins to relax.

Over time, it learns something new: that closeness can be chosen, not forced.

This is how INNER secure attachment is built, by creating safety for all parts.

IFS is a powerful way to work with avoidant parts.

If you’d like support, you can learn more about working with me via my website.

Love, Jen đŸȘ·

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The anxious part is often misunderstood, even by the person carrying it.It’s labelled 'needy', 'reactive', 'too much'.Bu...
09/01/2026

The anxious part is often misunderstood, even by the person carrying it.

It’s labelled 'needy', 'reactive', 'too much'.
But from a parts-work lens, it’s simply a protector trying to prevent loss.

This part formed in moments where connection felt uncertain or fragile. It learned that staying alert, reaching out, and scanning for signs of closeness was necessary.

Healing doesn’t come from silencing this part. It comes from staying present with it.

When you respond with steadiness instead of urgency, with curiosity instead of shame,this part begins to relax.

Over time, it learns something new: that connection can be internal as well as external.

This is how INNER secure attachment is built, not by getting rid of anxious parts, but by becoming a safe place for them.

IFS is a wonderful way to work with your parts, if you want to know more about working with me, check out my website: www.psychotherapycentral.health

Love, Jen đŸȘ·

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In parts work, we don’t ask, “How do I stop this reaction?” We ask, “Which part of me is activated right now?”There is a...
08/01/2026

In parts work, we don’t ask, “How do I stop this reaction?” We ask, “Which part of me is activated right now?”

There is always a reason a part shows up.
It emerges when something feels unsafe, even if that danger is old.

When you slow down and listen, the part no longer has to shout.
And when it doesn’t have to shout, your system settles.

Nothing inside you is random.
Nothing inside you is wrong.

This is how internal safety is built, what I can INNER secure attachment.

Love, Jen đŸȘ·

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When your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, parts step forward to manage the threat.One part might push you to analyse.A...
07/01/2026

When your nervous system doesn’t feel safe, parts step forward to manage the threat.

One part might push you to analyse.
Another urge you to act quickly.
Another wants to withdraw or shut down.

These aren’t flaws. They are intelligent survival responses.

IFS teaches us that healing happens when we stop fighting these parts and start listening to them.

When a part feels seen and understood, it softens. When it softens, your system reorganises naturally.

You don’t heal by eliminating parts of yourself.
You heal by building a relationship with them. This is the work I LOVE. If you would to find out more about how I work, check out my website through the link in my bio.

Love, Jen đŸȘ·

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Many people already understand their patterns. They know why they react the way they do. But insight alone doesn’t rewir...
06/01/2026

Many people already understand their patterns. They know why they react the way they do. But insight alone doesn’t rewire the nervous system.

Change happens when your body feels safe enough to soften, safe enough to pause, to stay present, to choose differently.

This is why healing can’t be rushed. And why gentleness is not optional, it’s foundational.

Love, Jen đŸȘ·

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For many of us, slowing down was never modelled as safe. We learned to stay alert, productive, and responsive, even when...
05/01/2026

For many of us, slowing down was never modelled as safe. We learned to stay alert, productive, and responsive, even when our bodies were asking for rest.

So pausing can feel uncomfortable at first. Awkward. Wrong. Unproductive.

Your nervous system needs time to learn this new language.

Each time you pause without punishment, you teach yourself that presence is safe.

That you don’t have to earn rest.

That nothing bad happens when you stop pushing.

This is how new patterns form; gently, repeatedly, over time.

Love, Jen đŸȘ·

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So often we’ve been taught that discomfort means something is wrong, that we should fix, solve, or override it as quickl...
04/01/2026

So often we’ve been taught that discomfort means something is wrong, that we should fix, solve, or override it as quickly as possible.

But many of our patterns were formed in moments where slowing down didn’t feel safe.
Learning to pause now is not laziness or avoidance. It’s re-education.

When you allow a moment to exist without pressure, your nervous system begins to trust you. And from that trust, clarity and choice naturally emerge.

Love, Jen đŸȘ·
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A quiet reminder for the moments when your mind wants answers, but your nervous system needs gentleness.You don’t have t...
04/01/2026

A quiet reminder for the moments when your mind wants answers, but your nervous system needs gentleness.

You don’t have to resolve everything to be at peace. Sometimes the most powerful practice is simply allowing this moment to be here.

Save this for the days you feel overwhelmed.

Love, Jen đŸȘ·

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Psychotherapy Central

Hi! I’m Jennifer. I’m the founder of Psychotherapy Central, President of the International Energetic Healing Association, co-founder of The Golden Woman Centre, and Ambassador for A Sound Life charity. I am a mum to two beautiful children, wife, daughter, sister and friend. I have a Masters degree in Counselling and Applied Psychotherapy. I am a licensed psychotherapist, counsellor and energetic healer, but you can think of me as a huge self-love advocate, a listening ear, and a holder of space for transformation and healing.

I am lucky enough to do work that is my calling, it is my vocation. I have over 16 year’s experience working with individuals and groups. Leading international transformational retreats, seminars, writing accredited courses, e-books and blogs.

What brings me here?

I grew up wanting to change the world. I saw the images of starving children in Africa in the 80’s and I wanted to help. That desire led me to study Political Science at university with a large does of Development Studies included. After university I worked for the Japanese government for three years, teaching English in their public school sector. It was such a completely different culture to the UK, I found myself on a steep learning curve. I feel like I did a lot of growing up there. I met my husband to be, I travelled a lot – India, Nepal, South East Asia, Europe, Chille, Southern Africa, including hitchhiking and camping through Botswana and Namibia and had a lot of fun.