27/09/2025
You spent years believing that staying quiet made you stronger.
That if you didn’t react, you were in control.
That snapping meant you were too emotional, or worse, broken.
But here’s the truth: anger isn’t failure.
It’s your nervous system asking to be heard.
And when you learn to listen earlier, you don’t have to yell to prove your point.
You stay grounded. Clear. Calm. Without shutting yourself down.
👇 Save this for when you feel yourself about to tip over
Anger doesn’t come out of nowhere.
It builds when your boundaries are overlooked or silenced, until it has no choice but to burst.
To shift out of that cycle, start here:
Step 1: Notice tension before it peaks
What happens in your body when you hold it in?
Tight jaw? Breath stuck? Heat rising in your chest?
Those aren’t just symptoms. They’re signals, catch them before they take over.
Step 2: Practise with the small stuff
Ask for the seat you want. Say what you really mean when ordering food.
Not to be difficult, but to rebuild safety around using your voice.
Step 3: Set the boundary with regulation
Feel your feet. Exhale. Loosen your grip.
Then speak, steady, not sharp.
You’re showing your nervous system: “I can be honest and safe.”
This isn’t about avoiding anger.
It’s about learning to speak without the scream.
That’s how self-trust gets built..
Not when you’re perfect, but when you stay present.
DM FIX to book your free 15 min consult. I’ll show you how hypnotherapy and strategic psychotherapy can help you turn anger into clarity, not chaos!