14/05/2024
‘When we are ungrounded, we can’t get unhinged.’ .abrams ❤️🔥
And it’s so true! You can’t live your wildest dreams, be your most epic, untamed, unruly, powerful, giving no f&$ks self - when you don’t have your foundations sorted.
When the tangible parts of our lives and are unstable, it drains our energy leaving us exhausted and snappy.
I know what it’s like to feel ungrounded:
🔲 My relationship was shaky for a time.
🔲 The homes I’ve lived in have had issues: too small, rental being sold, flooding, mould etc.
On a tangible level this made me preoccupied, worried, distracted… but on an energetic level, I didn’t have capacity for my clients at times because my foundation, my home, wasn’t supporting me.
But really, what was happening is that - I wasn’t supporting me. I wasn’t advocating for my needs, I was people pleasing, over giving and not allowing myself to get the support I needed to thrive.
And this has been a theme that’s played out over and over.
Home
Relationships
Work
Money
Children
Health
These are the pillars that make us feel grounded and safe when everything is flowing smoothly. This is what enables us to either thrive or go into survival mode.
If you’re not feeling solid here, it will show up in your nervous system unless you sort it out at the deeper level.
It also reflects our ability to get and receive help.
As women, we sometimes struggle to keep it all afloat.
And then years pass and we’ve forgotten how to actually have fun. We’ve forgotten what lights us up.
We forget to
💝 be creative
💝 play
💝 crack jokes
💝 love on the people around us without worrying about the laundry, meal prepping or sorting out the paperwork….
💝 And we often forget to make love just for the fun of it.
Because our constant state of existence is ‘hectic mode’ so it becomes hard to switch off and let go.
And that’s so sad. Because that’s really what life is about.
Life is too short not to enjoy the juicy parts.
I’m all about:
✨ Feeling loved up
✨ Being rich AF
✨ Laughing till it hurts
✨ Having the freedom to do what you want, when you want.
✨ To have the energy to be spontaneous
Are you in need of a reset?
Hop online and book a call.
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