28/04/2026
This has been a long-overdue share for me, and it is only a snippet of my beliefs, opinions, and experiences regarding such a grand topic. I’m sure that as I continue to be poked or triggered by things I see online, I’ll keep sharing more of my perspective on this profoundly important subject.
Pregnancy, labor, and postpartum are the most individual and personal experiences imaginable. There are infinite possibilities across the spectrum of both harm and bliss; we cannot stand on a soapbox to tell others what they should do. We can only share what worked for us and what didn’t, offering support and blessings for whatever decisions people make for themselves. Ultimately, I hope those decisions come from a place of love, specifically self-love, rather than fear. 💕🙏🏾🌸