Lobato Therapy - Family Constellation - Counselling and Hypnotherapy

Lobato Therapy - Family Constellation - Counselling and Hypnotherapy • Systemic Therapy - Overcome Traumas
• Hypnosis Started her professional journey as Co-founder of Milênio Baby preschool in her hometown, Brazil.

Cristiane Lobato, the leadership at Lobato Therapy, has a Bachelor of Psychology and was graduated as a Counsellor, Hypnotherapist and Family Constellation Facilitator. This background gave her an extensive understanding of children's development of family systems and parental coaching. She fell in love with the systemic psychology philosophy and since then she has been supporting her client’s wel

lbeing, health, happiness and meaning in their lives. The knowledge and comprehension of our emotions is a wonderful tool for our self-development. Follow us if you want to know more about it. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/lobato_therapy/

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23/04/2026

Most women don’t realise…
this didn’t start with them.

The way you relate to love, approval, rejection…
often began in the relationship with your mother.

And the hardest part?

You keep trying to get from her
what she was never able to give.

Healing begins when you stop asking…
and start choosing differently.

If this touched something in you…

I invite you to join
BREAK THE PATTERN (Group)

Where we work at the root
of these emotional patterns…
so they don’t keep choosing for you.

21/04/2026

Read that again.

You weren’t “too much”.
You weren’t “too emotional”.

You were trying to make something work
with someone who couldn’t meet you.

But here’s the deeper truth…

When love felt inconsistent growing up,
your system learned to chase it, not receive it.

So now, attention feels like love.
And distance feels like something you need to fix.

That’s the pattern.

And patterns don’t break with willpower.
They break with awareness.

Save this if this hit you.

Or comment PATTERN and I’ll give you a question to reflect on.

Things you were told as a child…that still control your life.“I don’t want to bother.”“I can handle it on my own.”“Don’t...
20/04/2026

Things you were told as a child…
that still control your life.

“I don’t want to bother.”
“I can handle it on my own.”
“Don’t cry.”
“Be good.”

Looks normal.
Feels heavy.

Because you’re not reacting to today…
you’re repeating yesterday.

Which one is yours? Comment the number.

19/04/2026

Today’s experiences…
are quietly becoming tomorrow’s memories.

Nothing big.
Nothing planned.
Just us.

And maybe that’s the part I’m learning to honour the most,
the in-between moments,
the laughter that comes out of nowhere,
the little hands that still reach for mine.

Because one day…
these photos won’t just be photos.

They’ll be proof that we lived this.
That we showed up.
That love was here.

And maybe the real question is…
are you present enough to feel it while it’s happening?

17/04/2026

I’m not just making memories…
I’m expanding his world.

Every trip, every place, every moment…
it was never just about going somewhere.

It was about showing you
that the world is wide,
that life is bigger than our little nest,
and that you are allowed to explore it.

One day you’ll fly, my love…
and I’ll be here,
watching with a full heart

14/04/2026

Most people think this is just who they are.

Their reactions.
Their patterns.
Their struggles.

But what if… it didn’t start with you?

In systemic work, we see how much is carried unconsciously across generations.

And awareness is where things begin to shift.

👉Comment AWARE and I’ll share one question to help you see this differently.

13/04/2026

You didn’t wake up one day feeling “not enough”.

You learned it…
in environments where love felt conditional.

So now you try harder.
Give more.
Prove yourself.

But this isn’t who you are.
It’s a pattern.

And patterns can be changed.

👉 Comment ENOUGH and I’ll show you where to start.

08/04/2026

That moment stayed with me.

At a playdate, during a small argument, an adult said to my son,
“Stay out of it… girls are difficult.”

It sounded harmless. Casual. Almost normal.

But this is how limiting beliefs are born.

Not in big traumatic moments,
but in small sentences that teach children how to see others… and themselves.

“Girls are difficult.”
“Boys don’t understand.”
“People like that are too much.”

And suddenly, difference becomes something to avoid, not to understand.

What if instead of labelling,
we taught our children how to stay present with difference?

How to listen,
how to regulate,
how to relate… even when it’s uncomfortable.

Because relationships don’t grow through labels.
They grow through capacity.

If this resonates, comment “AWARE” and I’ll share 3 things to start noticing immediately.

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