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02/05/2026

In the book The Fearless Organisation, there are inspiring stories of how leaders’ took consultation to be an act of care.

When people are only ever asked to “fill in the survey” or “tick the box,” they quickly learn that the organisation wants compliance, not contribution. But when leaders genuinely invite questions, concerns, and ideas – and then show how that input changes what happens next – consultation becomes a powerful signal: your experience matters here.

Amy Edmondson’s work on psychological safety describes cultures where people feel safe enough to speak up, admit mistakes, and ask for help without fear of embarrassment or punishment. Consultation is one of the main ways we build that kind of culture in everyday work.

That means consultation is not:

- A once‑a‑year form that disappears into a black hole (research suggests this is quite damaging)
- A scripted “listening session” where the decisions are already made.

Instead, it looks like:

- Leaders asking real, open questions – especially about risks, workload, relationships, and values tensions – and listening without jumping to blame.

- Teams making problems and ideas visible (whiteboards, shared dashboards, quick huddles), so it is normal to talk about what is not working, not shameful.

- People seeing their feedback shape priorities, processes, and resourcing – and hearing back, “Here is what we heard and here is what we are doing.”

When consultation works this way, it stops being paperwork and becomes practice: a way we care for one another, protect safety and dignity, and learn fast enough to do better.

The Centre for Effective Serving hosts a free mental health screen.  The measures we use mirror the ones used in the muc...
30/04/2026

The Centre for Effective Serving hosts a free mental health screen. The measures we use mirror the ones used in the much larger Duke University Clergy Health Initiative. In the last 6 months these are the trends of the people who responded. All are in ministry. Though, it is not certain what the motivation for completing the screen is. Some may have come as part of a routine check up. Some because they, or someone they knew were concerned. It is by no means representative of the whole population. Nonetheless, it still mirrors patterns in our 2023 general survey which would have been more randomised.

Please note, these are AI generated results, and may be prone to error, though 2 AI platforms were used to check one another.

- 1 in 3 ministry workers who took the survey seriously considered leaving their role in the past year
- Of those, half were also considering leaving ministry altogether
- 42% reported experiencing distress severe enough to affect their sleep and daily functioning
- 26% scored in the moderate-to-severe depression range (PHQ-8)
- 14% scored in the moderate-to-severe anxiety range (GAD-7)
- 35% are experiencing exhaustion at "sometimes" frequency or higher
- The top reasons for considering leaving: job stress (57%), family impact (53%), loneliness (35%)
- 43% experienced conflicts or quarrels in the past year that are still causing them distress
- Emotional self-awareness was the weakest self-care area in this group of respondents. The results sugges that ministry workers largely want to understand their emotional lives — but the reflective practices that would build that capacity day-to-day are the least established of any self-care domain, with 36% engaging in zero or just one emotional reflection practice.
- Workers experiencing active distress showed depression and anxiety scores nearly double those who weren't

What the data suggests:
- Loneliness in ministry is common, not a fringe experience
- Conflict within faith communities is a significant and underaddressed source of psychological harm
- Individual resilience programs alone are unlikely to be sufficient — organisational and structural responses are needed

30/04/2026

Statistics from the USA and Australia suggest that up to 40% of clergy have thought about leaving their current ministry role. After doing some research about the effects of chronic resignation thinking on mental health, and the double edged sword of call-based careers, I thought it would be important to make a further distinction. "Call-based" careers - such as religious vocations, respond not only to a job advertisement, but to a divine summons. Therefore, it would be important to ask a further question - are you thinking of leaving the ministry altogether.

Contemplating leaving ministry altogether often carries a very different weight.

For many clergy, this isn’t just a job change. It can be experienced as, a sense of personal failure, a perceived abandonment of calling leading to

spiritual and existential conflict, sometimes framed in terms of eternal consequences.

Since October last year, The Centre for Effective Serving has been hosting a free emotional health survey for ministry workers. Approximately 70 have completed our screen. Notwithstanding we have likely attracted responses from distressed clergy, here’s what we’re seeing:

~35% have considered leaving their current position

of those, around half have also considered leaving ministry altogether

This raises important questions.

For research:

Are we adequately distinguishing between role turnover and vocational exit?

What different predictors and outcomes sit behind each pathway?

For practice:

What early indicators are we missing when someone shifts from “I need to leave this role” to “I need to leave ministry”?

How do we better support clergy before distress becomes vocational, and potential spiritual, rupture?

Not all leaving is the same—and how we interpret these signals matters for both prevention and care.

While it is quite well established that just under half of our clergy (in the western world at least) are not experiencing distress, the other half are. A significant segment of them are likely suffering deep spiritual pain. We must not make reductionistic conclusions. We need to ask deeper questions.

What happens when faith leaders reach out to Harvard Medical School to help them? An incredible partnership when the bes...
29/04/2026

What happens when faith leaders reach out to Harvard Medical School to help them? An incredible partnership when the best minds join the tender hearts of shepherds, and the willing hands of servants. Ah … goosebumps episode!

Podcast Episode · Clergy Wellbeing Down Under · S3 E9 · 41min

Coming up tomorrow, a free information session about Mental Health First Aid in Christian faith communities, how it coul...
28/04/2026

Coming up tomorrow, a free information session about Mental Health First Aid in Christian faith communities, how it could benefit you and the people you serve.

Not too late to register here:

Welcome! You are invited to join a meeting: Mental Health First Aid Information Session. After registering, you will receive a confirmation email about joining the meeting.

22/04/2026

Coming up tomorrow with Brian Foreman - an encouraging, and revealing look at what congregations say about their health and vitality, and how it can be an encouragement to clergy who minimise their ministry.

18/04/2026

If we accept a systems approach to interpersonal dynamics in church, then we need to accept that clergy wellbeing is embedded within this system. Personal resilience is one factor, then comes the congregational, organisational, governance, and wider socio-political dynamics. Every podcast guest so far, from no matter what angle their research takes, has highlighted - clergy loneliness is a serious issue, closed conflict driven church systems play a role in clergy distress, and congregational health is a significant contributing factor.

This week Dr Allison Norton shares her research on immigration and faith, digital belonging, and social trends in the “n...
16/04/2026

This week Dr Allison Norton shares her research on immigration and faith, digital belonging, and social trends in the “new normal”. How’s this a Clergy Wellbeing Down Under episode? I think we can get fixed on opinions and micro-discourse that can discourage us in ministry. Perhaps even impose a picture that you’re not doing enough. This episode challenged me to listen openly to the stories in the data and see how God is moving in macro ways and to find comfort that this is still His world, his people and one big His story. You can find the podcast episode on all players and also on YouTube

Andrew joined us at our last Mental Health First Aid training.  Here is what he had to say.  Come to our free info sessi...
15/04/2026

Andrew joined us at our last Mental Health First Aid training. Here is what he had to say. Come to our free info session, and find out more, and see how it can benefit you. Link to registration in comments.

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15/04/2026

This episode did bring out the Judgy McJudgy in me, and I sat uncomfortably with some of the findings. It was a great exercise to practice curiousity and open mindedness and wonder about the story the data is sharing. Drops tomorrow on the Clergy Wellbeing Down Under Podcast - with Dr Allison Norton, Associate Professor of Migration Studies and Congregational Life at Hartford International University. She shares what they discovered in a US national survey of digital church use, migration patterns in church, and the intersection of clergy and congregational dynamics.

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