01/02/2025
                                            Resisting change is not bad. It is integral to change.
Resistance to change is part of being human. If we never resisted change, we would be without boundaries and vulnerable to all sorts of consequences we hadn’t considered. We would have no sense of self, and it would be almost impossible to maintain any relationship if we constantly reinvented ourselves. 
Our relationships at home and work often require us to change, compromise, and reevaluate. Such demands are acceptable to us, and we probably don’t think about them much. 
The harder stuff is when changes challenge our sense of self and relationship with others. Perhaps your partner wants you to change a habit, or you are working for a new manager.  A refusal to change is a common first reaction and completely understandable. But when we hold our position without evaluating the pros and cons of not changing, we can find our relationships are challenged and our lives become more stressful than they need to be. 
To recap.   Resistance to change is universal. Resistance is integral to change. Resistance is an opportunity to learn and understand ourselves and to understand others.                                        
 
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                                                                                     
                                         
   
   
   
   
     
   
   
  