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If you don't like saying NO to others,  start saying YES to you.From the moment we are born, we are conditioned to 'be n...
23/07/2024

If you don't like saying NO to others, start saying YES to you.

From the moment we are born, we are conditioned to 'be nice', yes sir, no sir 3, bags full sir, and with every agreeable response we give, an underlying resentment starts to brew.

There is a vast difference between superficial niceness and authentic love. Society conditions us to always be agreeable, by meeting others' expectations and forgoing our own, this will lead to resentment no matter how much you think you are doing it out of love or because you think you consider yourself a nice person. You are a nice person because you are getting validated by others, and losing yourself in the process. You can not be whole if you keep giving pieces of yourself to others.

What we should learn is to accept and recognize that our true nature is love, which begins with self-awareness and self-care.

True love involves acknowledging and understanding our own needs and desires, and setting boundaries. This isn’t selfish; it’s our responsibility. By doing so, we can fully express our unique selves and contribute authentically to the world.

Like a crying child not wanting to leave their favourite park, I have started my sadhana again as this is my path. I hav...
20/07/2024

Like a crying child not wanting to leave their favourite park, I have started my sadhana again as this is my path. I have often referred to the concept of "Life's Purpose" as being much like a rubber band, you can stretch as much as you like but you will always be snapped back to what you are meant to be.

Often, I have wondered why I have attracted the people and the lessons I have in my life, especially in recent years. I have been to hell and back and I've had the capacity to hate as deeply as I have loved. I have released many that I have loved and cared for deeply understanding those lessons are now integrated and learned.

In a downward spiral of loss and despair, I realised that all that I have hated and loved have been nothing more than aspects of myself and that there is nothing to fear. We are nobody and nothing but also everyone and everything simultaneously. All that ever was and ever will be is always omnipresent within, we are stardust matter longing to be the eye of the storm we call life.

Om Ma Sharanam

I'm not one to air my dirty laundry, and when I am going through stuff I rather retreat and solve the challenge myself, ...
16/07/2024

I'm not one to air my dirty laundry, and when I am going through stuff I rather retreat and solve the challenge myself, that way I can not blame anyone else for any ill advice. I have always been like this from a very young age. Perhaps it stems from not having had the attention I needed as a young child, or from being gaslighted and invalidated. I am not sure and it really doesn't matter because it has given me the invaluable gift of empathy and compassion which is so lacking in the world today.

I believe that life is an array of experiences and lessons to learn and evolve from. I dont appreciate unsolicited advice, and in return, I solemnly offer any unless I'm asked, BUT I do, however, appreciate knowing that I am not alone, and this I offer unconditionally.

I am more about supporting by dropping 'nuggets' and allowing them to be picked up by those who are ready.

So get your batea ready because your Spiritual Sugar Mamma is going to be dropping golden nuggets left right and center!

Note to self....
09/05/2024

Note to self....

Exactly!
05/05/2024

Exactly!

mmm seems like a good plan to me  :)
16/04/2024

mmm seems like a good plan to me :)

My mother always used to say, "en mal tiempo, buena cara", meaning in bad times, good face!I'm pretty confident that I c...
14/03/2024

My mother always used to say, "en mal tiempo, buena cara", meaning in bad times, good face!

I'm pretty confident that I can say I'm not the only one to going through it at the moment.

The planetary alignment is hectic, we are entering eclipse season and boy are we feeling it. These cosmic periods carry significant symbolism and are commonly linked to shifts, metamorphosis, and personal development. Great to detox, declutter and get organized, but that you don't rather than the Universe don't for you, trust me!!

There is a profound spiritual influence with eclipses which have the ability to bring about unexpected changes and upheavals energetically. So buckle in kiddos, we're in for a hell of a ride this year!!

Guardian Of Roses. She came to me the other night.Message to follow.As the Guardian of Roses, I bring you the essence of...
07/03/2024

Guardian Of Roses.
She came to me the other night.
Message to follow.

As the Guardian of Roses, I bring you the essence of beauty, love, and transformation. Within each delicate rose petal lies the heart's deepest desires, waiting to unfold like a blossoming flower in the morning dew.

I invite you to embrace the fragrance of love that surrounds you. Smell the aromas of passion, devotion, and the eternal cycle of life reminding you to nurture your connections with others and to cultivate the garden within your heart with tenderness and care.

As you observe the rose remember that like the thorns that protect the rose, challenges, and obstacles that you face are a source of strength and resilience. Embrace them with courage and grace, knowing that they are part of your growth and evolution.

Take a moment to connect with the wisdom of the rose, allowing its beauty to uplift your spirit and fill your heart with gratitude. Trust in the transformative power of love to guide you on your path, knowing that you are always supported and protected by the guardians of the heart.

Let the presence of roses remind you of the infinite possibilities that lie within you. Embrace the magic of love that it represents, and let it lead you to the fulfillment of your deepest desires.

Enjoy her blessings

How long is a piece of string.From a single thread, the tapestry of life is woven.  Different strands come together, tyi...
05/03/2024

How long is a piece of string.

From a single thread, the tapestry of life is woven. Different strands come together, tying us to the clutches of material existence.

Each lifetime noted by a variegation in the tread, illustrating the diversity of existence and the beauty of the tapestry of life. The continuation of the thread and all its colours reminding us of our eternal nature and that we are all intricately connected, all that ever was, is, and will be, connected by the desire for love.

Enjoy your day and take time out to marvel at this precious thing that we call life.

Reminder: Be kind to yourself. The way you talk to yourself matters. Speak to yourself with the same kindness and compas...
01/03/2024

Reminder: Be kind to yourself. The way you talk to yourself matters. Speak to yourself with the same kindness and compassion you'd show to a friend. 💕

The more awakened to my true essence and connect to the truth of all that is, the sadder I become.  Deep down, all we wa...
28/02/2024

The more awakened to my true essence and connect to the truth of all that is, the sadder I become.

Deep down, all we want is a sense of love and connection, yet when I look at the state of humanity there couldn't be a greater divide making this desire of Unity almost an impossibility.

All I see is fake love and connections, driven by a pseudo sense of 'caring' when really their true motivates are what's in for me? And as soon as you no longer serve their purpose you are tossed aside like a used tissue during C0v1d.

Dont be a tosser, be kind, because what goes round comes round!!

What is everyone doing tomorrow??
12/02/2024

What is everyone doing tomorrow??

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